My daughter has been running away since 15 and this time she's been gone for a while. Since she is 17 there is nothing more I can do. I'm more focused on her salvation if I provided enough of God words and displayed how a Christian is supposed to live. I feel as a parent I failed her and I have 3 more daughters to raise how do I get passed this and move on I feel stuck. Please pray for me to experience God peace
I am sad to hear that your daughter is choosing to run away from you and the rest of her family. I am only 29 years old and I do not have any children, but I have been through many experiences with close friends who have decided that running away is the best option for them at the moment. I am not sure if you will consider this Good information, bad information, or just information, but you should realize that people of all ages run away. Some people physically run away and others will mentally or spiritually run away. It can happen at a young age or even an older age, and it can be for many different reasons.
At this point, you say that there is nothing you can do to keep your daughter home, but I believe that there is something you can do. Your daughter is 17 has been doing this for 2 years so it means that something has happened in her life to spark this change of attitude. She believes that she is safest and/or most comfortable in another place with someone else. You may ask yourself some of the following questions:
1. Where does she run to?
2. Who is providing for her?
3. Why does she return home?
4. Does she miss her family?
5. What will you do the next time that she comes home?
I am not sure if you are familiar with the story of the prodigal son, but I suggest that you do a google search and read it from many perspectives. Of course, be sure to read the passage from the bible as well. There are so many lost souls in this world and God is like a parent that is asking why his children continue to run away. And then there are those of us who may have never run away, but we ask ourselves, "Why does God lament for the lost souls so much that he is willing to postpone judgement day so that some of those souls, who have already rejected him, may have an opportunity to return?" Well, the answer to this question can be summed up with one simple word: love.
I think that you are also concerned about the welfare of your other three children. However, you should not be ashamed of your parenting skills. Rather, you should ask yourself some tough questions so that you can get some real answers and then do not hesitate to apply that wisdom to your parenting skills.
"Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6
Stay strong in the faith. Do not become weary in well doing. Continue to pray to God, but do not just utter requests to Him as if He is a genie. Rather, pray and listen so that you may live according to His will. All things work together for the good of those who love Him. If you truly love God, then everything, including this situation, have to work together for your good.
Also, keep in mind that even your child has her own mind and you cannot control it; not even with the all the riches and servants in the world.
Talking can help you cope with this. Prayer can see your through it. But only action inspired by faith can get you out of it.