God hates divorce

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Sirk

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but not for the reasons that most people are taught....God hates divorce because it hurts his children like nothing else.
 
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Siberian_Khatru

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I hate it too, bro. Always pulls at my heart strings when a couple/family is broken up. You're still in my thoughts.
 
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Yes, God hates divorce because that is not what He planned for us. :(
 

Angela53510

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Sorry you are still hurting so much, Sirk! Divorce is a terrible thing, no doubt about it. But God is still there, even in this dark hour!
 
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Little_Woman

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I'll think more than twice before being in love with a man, I always being single,
as I read your thread on Family Forums,
I'll alert myself to think more than twice.
 
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CarolSampaio

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but not for the reasons that most people are taught....God hates divorce because it hurts his children like nothing else.
Yes... that is true... it leaves wounds that take a looooong time to heal... :(

Once a psychologist told me that it was easier for many people to cope with the death of a loved one than with divorce...
 
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but not for the reasons that most people are taught....God hates divorce because it hurts his children like nothing else.
I agree. My best friend is divorced. Not by choice. She came home early one day from work, and saw bags packed and saw her husband there. He looks at her and says, "Oh, I was trying to leave before you came back." He hands her a note and leaves.

What hurts me the most about this whole thing is this: She's had certain people from the church we grew up in (I'm not part of it any longer) scream at her in the face because she's a divorced woman.
 
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CarolSampaio

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What hurts me the most about this whole thing is this: She's had certain people from the church we grew up in (I'm not part of it any longer) scream at her in the face because she's a divorced woman.
Your friend is probably a nice and good soul... that kind that is scared of hurting peoples feelings... kinda like my best friend... and for some reason, because of that, people feel that they can do and say whatever the heck they want to them...

I got divorced... and not one person tried to do that to me... for the simple reason that they know what's going to happen if they do... ;)

Maybe that's why I don't have many friends.....
 
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Your friend is probably a nice and good soul... that kind that is scared of hurting peoples feelings... kinda like my best friend... and for some reason, because of that, people feel that they can do and say whatever the heck they want to them...

I got divorced... and not one person tried to do that to me... for the simple reason that they know what's going to happen if they do... ;)

Maybe that's why I don't have many friends.....
Haha, yes, she's very sweet. But, great news is she's dating someone, plans is to get engaged, and she already asked me to be her maid of honor.

I told her, "Get engaged first and then we'll talk." ;)
 
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CarolSampaio

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Haha, yes, she's very sweet. But, great news is she's dating someone, plans is to get engaged, and she already asked me to be her maid of honor.

I told her, "Get engaged first and then we'll talk." ;)
That is wonderful!! So there is hope for the rest of us!!! I hope... hehehehe :)

And you're just playing hard to get!! She had you at "will"... ;)
 
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That is wonderful!! So there is hope for the rest of us!!! I hope... hehehehe :)

And you're just playing hard to get!! She had you at "will"... ;)
Haha, enjoy your singleness :D

Haha, no, no, no. But since they aren't engaged yet, it's too premature :p But, we both know we will both be in each other's weddings lol. So I knew it was coming. We've been inseparable since childhood, but just the past few years, became so much closer.
 
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CarolSampaio

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Haha, enjoy your singleness :D

Haha, no, no, no. But since they aren't engaged yet, it's too premature :p But, we both know we will both be in each other's weddings lol. So I knew it was coming. We've been inseparable since childhood, but just the past few years, became so much closer.
I have two best friends... and we three are actually inseparable... so, in all our weddings we all had to have two maids of honor... huahuahuahuahua it just had to be this way... there was no choosing... hehehehehe
 
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I have two best friends... and we three are actually inseparable... so, in all our weddings we all had to have two maids of honor... huahuahuahuahua it just had to be this way... there was no choosing... hehehehehe
Haha, yeah, I've heard of that happening :D I only have one best friend that's a female. The rest of my best friends are males and that'd be awkward :p
 
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CarolSampaio

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Haha, yeah, I've heard of that happening :D I only have one best friend that's a female. The rest of my best friends are males and that'd be awkward :p
Not at all... I'm sure they would look gorgeous in pastel colored dresses... or you could just say they were dressed as mages... and those were their robes... that would be really cool!! hehehehehe
 
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Sirk

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I'm glad yo ladies high jacked this thread. Thank you!
 
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CarolSampaio

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I'm glad yo ladies high jacked this thread. Thank you!
Always a pleasure, Sirk!!! :)

We like to use our highjacking powers for the greater good!! hehehehehe
 
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Sirk

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I'm not like down in the dumps or anything...lol. It's just that in going thru this process , things come up that annoy the crap out of me. I have to really check myself and not find entertainment when my soon to ex continues to make bad choices and pays the price for them.
 
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I'm not like down in the dumps or anything...lol. It's just that in going thru this process , things come up that annoy the crap out of me. I have to really check myself and not find entertainment when my soon to ex continues to make bad choices and pays the price for them.
Ah, then our jokes must have come off as insensitive. Sorry about that, Sirk.

This is very tough, I"m sure. I'll be praying, Sirk :/