Guilt!!!!

[Chikita]

I am a believer for now 2 years...I am single and is still persuing a relationship with God. Over the weekend I kissed a married man and now I cannot shake the guilt. He still persues me but I feel sick to my stomach thinking about it. We work together and I tried telling him that I felt it was wrong. He has done this with other girls aswell. I have asked for forgiveness from God...but the guilt is making me feel unforgiven. I cant tell anyone as they will freak out because of our cultural differences and the fact that he is married..please help and pray for me. I wonder how this has affected God's plan for me.Thank you

 

[Ugly]

Conviction comes from God. It allows us to see our wrongs, own up to them, learning from and grow.
Guilt comes from satan. Guilt wears us down, closes us off, beats us up and causes us to give up.
Right now you are acting inline with what satan wants you to believe.



I'm so desperate, I can't believe I've sinned against you
Create in me a clean heart (I'm so sorry)
Your mercy is what I need

Woke up this morning too depressed and shamed to leave my bed
Can't stand to see my own reflection so I hang my head
Feel like a disappointment like the scum of the earth
I'm so hurt I know you see I can't cover my dirt
My souls dying hearts weak and I can't even cry
I'm sposed to run to you but WHY I'm such an evil guy
The sun's shining but for me it's the darkest of days
Try to pretend it never happened but the guilt remains
I leave the house it feels like everybody knows I did it
Feels like they reading my mind and know the sin I committed
Through your blood I'm aquitted but my heart doesnt get it
Oh God I'm desperate for Help cause I'm grieving your Spirit
I couldn't sing in the sunday service, Lord I felt fake
And when they started communion I just made an escape
I'm in need of your grace
Feels like you hid your face
Lead me back to cross and show me my sins erased

I'm waste deep in my pity
Is Satan tryna trick me and tell me you won't forgive me
Cause it's startin to get me
Jesus help me quickly I hate wrong I've done
I know we all fall but I feel like the only one
Feels like I should be shunned
Should I punish myself
I know it's dumb cause by your death all my sin has been dealt
But my sin is been felt
I didn't want to do it
But what I want to do I don't
I swear I'm gonna to lose it
Try to open my bible I need to read your pages

I need you Lord but my guilt has got me feeling so faithless
Help me see where your face is
Take me back to the basics
Help me find my joy in you and not people and places
My sin is ever before me I turned my back on you
Oh father break and restore me to bring me back to you

Have mercy on me God according to your steady love
Wipe away my transgression and wash me in your blood
Create in me a clean heart renew a right spirit
Don't take your Spirit away your Presence keep me near it
I'm waiting patience on you Lord I know you hear my cry
Restore your Joy in me
For you alone I live and die

It's you I Glorify cause you don't want my sacrifice
You want me broken and contrite trusting in the Christ
I confess to you my sin and you show me mercy
I turn away from it demonstrating that you are worthy
Over lust, over pride, over all sin
Is my affection for Jesus is who died for all them
I was lost now I'm found I was toss to the ground
My sin weighed on me heavy but I am no longer bound
As sure as Christ wears the crown
I know that grace will abound
And even when I feel lost I know in You I am found

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[Chikita]

Wow thank you so much!!! I have no words to express how spot on that song is! May Go bless you!

 

[Hungry]

I don't think that effected God's plan for you because He knew before the kiss what you would do. Guilt is supposed to help us identify it as sin but when we repent and confess we are supposed to accept the gift of forgiveness so we don't need to carry that guilt. That is why we are supposed to be so quick to forgive others because God so freely forgives us.

 

[notuptome]

Well in today's secular society what he did was against the law. It is sexual harassment. Next time tell him that if he does not cool it he will be reported to the authorities. If not you will need to find a new job. It will eventually come to public knowledge and everyone involved will be ashamed.

In any case to continue to believe it is harmless is foolish on your part. It could easily escalate into a much more serious issue.

For the cause of Christ
Roger

 

[tenderhearted]

If you confessed then you are forgiven. There is no condemnation is Christ Jesus. However, since you do work with this man you have to set boundaries. I don't know what you do for a living, but if it's possible avoid speaking to him whenever you two are alone. Don't answer emails, text, or phone calls unless they are related to work. No eating lunch with this man or any other married man. You cannot be friends with this man. If you keep it professional than you shouldn't have to worry about making this mistake again. If he continues to pursue you even after you have set boundaries then you have to report him for sexual harassment.

 

[brokenclay]

Jeremiah 29:11*(King James Version)
Jeremiah 29:11
King James Version (KJV)
11*For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
Dear sister there are two places you can place your feelings. One is in your heavenly Father's care. The other is in Satans care. The Holy Spirit convicts us sin so we can repent. Therefore there is now no more condemnation to them who have believed.
Satan will keep accusing you before God. He will feed you lies. Draw close to God. Tell God. Lord!! The devils bothering me. Please be my shield.I am praying God will surround you with Godly woman everday. Praying God will cut off that man from communicating with you and other woman. Let God meet your needs in the right way. May God bless you with clean and holy desires. Amen. .

 

[TashMeyer76]

Hey Chicka
Guilt has nearly crippled me. Just repent, and move on. God forgives us unconditionally, he forgets our sins and throws it into the debts of the ocean. It is up to us to take that forgiveness.

If you have told this man to back off, you've done more than enough. DO not put yourself in the spot again.

God blessings!

 

[Agricola]

Guilt, part of Satans double Whammy.

STAGE 1: make the person sin.
STAGE 2: make the person feel so guilty they will think God hates them and dosn't want anything to do with them. "God hates you for committing adultery" , yes you committed adultery just by kissing him, "God hates you so much now that you that God will not even listen to you or love you for it, you are worthless scum, so what is the point in continuing anymore? "

 

[eddie1801]

First of all. Welcome to CC. Its a great place to seek and give advice. I hope you know that God will forgive you for your actions. The devil with throw it in your face as often as he can. Remember who you belong to, you belong to God. With that being said, do not put yourself in a compromising situation with this man. Unsure of what your job is, but you can utilize sexual harassment in the workplace. In addition to this, if you feel as if you have no one to relate to at this job, pray about it, God can send you a friend there, or you can even obtain a new job. Remember God reign supreme, he can change the atmosphere in that workplace. God always provides a way of escape for his people. Just dont give into temptation, and allow the devil to play with your mind. Hope this helps

 

[Nautilus]

Well in today's secular society what he did was against the law. It is sexual harassment. Next time tell him that if he does not cool it he will be reported to the authorities. If not you will need to find a new job. It will eventually come to public knowledge and everyone involved will be ashamed.

In any case to continue to believe it is harmless is foolish on your part. It could easily escalate into a much more serious issue.

For the cause of Christ
Roger

If it was a mutual kiss then it isnt sexual harassment.