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My husband and I had a 6 month separation 2 years ago. His choice. He was not a Christian and converted after he came back to me. (When we married I was backsliden.) About 6 months later he said he didn't really mean it and really came back because it was to expensive to be separated. October this past year he said he doesn't love me anymore and there are no feelings. He says he'll try to work on it, but if I don't do everything his way when he wants it, he calls me terrible names and cusses at me using the f word and everything. It breaks my heart and he says I'm the stupid one who makes him do it. He says if I wasn't so stupid and didn't make him mad he would have no reason to treat me that way.
This is my second marriage, my first ended because of his adultery and I don't want another divorce one more big thing is I have 5 kids only one with him, and he wants nothing to do with my other 4! He will only spend time with me and not as a family. He says he doesn't like being around my children. He's turned into this mean selfish person and I don't know what to do! Some Christian friends say get out while others say to stay and pray. And if I do leave him I don't want to spend the rest of my life alone I just want him to be saved and put Christ first and live me like Christ loves the church!! But he wants to hear nothing about Christianity and he wants to split by June if his feelings don't change!
This is my second marriage, my first ended because of his adultery and I don't want another divorce one more big thing is I have 5 kids only one with him, and he wants nothing to do with my other 4! He will only spend time with me and not as a family. He says he doesn't like being around my children. He's turned into this mean selfish person and I don't know what to do! Some Christian friends say get out while others say to stay and pray. And if I do leave him I don't want to spend the rest of my life alone I just want him to be saved and put Christ first and live me like Christ loves the church!! But he wants to hear nothing about Christianity and he wants to split by June if his feelings don't change!