I have been married for 22 yrs. We have 17 yr old boy/girl twins. We have had some issues with our children that have driven a wedge between us. We basically exist as roommates. Its been almost a yr since we've had sex and he seems not to care that we are completely disfunctional. We often don't agree on parenting, what we believe as christians, and it seems not much in general! I am depressed all the time. None of us really communicate. I know that my kids are not learning how to be happily married by watching us. I would've left already but this marriage is what I signed up for and I want to do 1 thing right in my life. I just need help to get through this life.
Don't look to the problems... look to the Great God you have. Nothing is impossible to Him. I also suffered before in my own home, after my dad's death I was depressed and feeling lonely, because I tought he was my best friend, so I began to isolate myself. Then when I found Jesus again, I saw it wasn't normal to don't talk with my own mother, I trusted, prayed and waited. In the right moment, Jesus changed our home, now I can see how important is to keep praying and keeping asking the right things to the Lord. Praise the Lord! God bless you...
"For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened."
Matthew 7:8
"Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me."
Revelation 3:20
"Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone?
Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?
If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?"
Matthew 7:9-11