im living with someone we are not married and have a baby

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littlemarsmom

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thank you all in advance for hearing me out God is working in so many ways that I can't even start to do list I am just being obedient and following God's Way for me but my other life is different we're not married we have a baby together I try so hard not to have sex with him but its so hard I'm so grateful for this chat room cause I feel like I could just vent here I appreciate any comments that you might have or someone that might have been in the same situation as me my family is Catholic I just became Christian I don't have that many friends he smokes marijuana I see God working through him and I am trying to lead by example because he has come a long way I just pray that maybe me putting this on here who doesn't know me praying and break that chain The Binding him to the feeling of being awesome father thank you thank you thank you and may God bless you and your family always lord knows I just said a prayer for you amen
 
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Bluecomet

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Could you put your question a little plainer ?
 
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kenisyes

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Is it possible that you are in fact married in God's eyes? There are Scriptures that apply to this. I Cor. 7 is a good place to start reading.
 
onlinebuddy

onlinebuddy

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Jesus came not for the self-righteous(those who think they have arrived), but for those who need help (forgiveness, repentance, salvation). You seem to love God sincerely, and you also love this man sincerely. Maybe God sees you two as married (as Ken was hinting), since you already are a physical family. How about getting married in church and legally? I can only suggest, since I do not know all the details. In this way you can make your relationship acceptable to the law and society (and to the church, off course). Then get some church friends involved in your lives. Once he is called to be a responsible husband and father, he may stop marijuana and also be a good husband and father. Most of all, you will experience the blessings of God.
 
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Ariel82

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I think you should post this in the prayer request forum. there are always people there who will pray for you, your baby and your boyfriend.

May God break his addictions and give him a heart and mind to be an awesome father.
 
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jerusalem

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no matter what your boyfriend is doing you yourself must obey the Lord. you know what you should be doing and why so make up your mind to do it without compromise. i will pray that God strengthen you and guard your heart
 
sandtigeress

sandtigeress

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Hi, maybe you should put your priorities together, first. the try "not to have sex" confuses me.
You have a baby, you live together, you are life partners in all but legalization (did i understand that correctly ?) ?

So are you thinking about getting married in a church (to have the blessing of your fellow christians for
your unofficial marriage) or are you thinking about leaving him (because you think, that the relationship is
no marriage, but sinfull living) ?
Which is it ?

Prayers are on the way, for you to help you understand gods way of looking at your relationship
and to help you grow.
 
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