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I'm pretty near loosing my mind. My husbands eldest two children have over and over and over stolen, taken advantage of, lied, spread rumors and just about anything else you can come up with. I've given them chance after chance.
While my husband was deployed, his middle child along with three of her friends stole more then $1200 from him. Her latest response to pay him back anything "you aint getting shi* from me" Why this response? Because she is so used to getting away with everything, He and his x wife have allowed her to steal from them and do nothing. Even when caught by the law, she got away with stealing more then $10,000 in bridge jacks. Because her parents never turned her in for all the stealing she's done since she was 5 years old.
His oldest girl pushed her way onto our 6.5 acres of land and put a house, even though i was totally against it. I've forbidden the middle girl from being here, because she is a thief, and has after numerous chances, proven to be that over and over.
Everything just seems to pile up on me. Last May, i tried to kill myself. It was a combination of steroid injections into my back, and a prescribed overdose of anti-depressants. Plus my cat was gutted on Christmas Eve last year by his middle child's pit bull. No apology, no remorse nothing. (Kat was born to a drop off cat about 2 weeks after my last failed pregnancy. I hand raised her as her mom tried to kill her, and the rest of the litter) Valentines day, we had to humainly put down our 15 year old Chocolate lab. She couldn't stand up on her own, or walk without us moving her. Libby's hips were shot. Then two days before my attempt, we had to put down our 6 year old Shelty mix, Verdun. She almost took out our then 4 year old little girls eye. I was right there, she wasn't even touching Verdun. We have no idea why she would have hurt Helen. Then add the oldest girl, her two kids and two dogs living here, not helping with anything, not paying a bill. for 5 months my husband paid for her and her kids.
Now the eldest has a guy she's known for 3 weeks living with her. we don't know this man. he acts like the whole property is his to do with as he pleases. hunting, hiking whatever. There is no rights to anything, other then a driveway, and the house, nothing was signed, nothing was given. Not even a verbal agreement of her buying anything.
I have severe clinical depression, i'm bi-polar, severe anxiety. Then i have bi-lateral spinal stenosis. I'm not even able to pick my 5 year old little girl up. I was told i'll never have children again, after having 9 official pregnancies and only two surviving children. We have no insurance since my husband lost his job. Even though he retired after 33 years of military service, family insurance doesn't start until he's 60. He's covered. Our little girl has insurance. I don't. I'm supposed to be on 3 anti depressants, 2 anti psychotics, thyroid meds, blood pressure meds, and all the things i'm supposed to be on for my back.
I really just can't take anymore. I know everyone always says "He only gives you what you can handle" Honestly, i reached my limit back in May, and overdosed on pain meds. The only reason i haven't offed myself, is i dont want to see my youngest raised anything like his other two kids. I'm really contemplating moving away from here. My parents are up in Illinois, as well as my eldest daughter. I just can't do this anymore. i feel like i'm drowning. please help
While my husband was deployed, his middle child along with three of her friends stole more then $1200 from him. Her latest response to pay him back anything "you aint getting shi* from me" Why this response? Because she is so used to getting away with everything, He and his x wife have allowed her to steal from them and do nothing. Even when caught by the law, she got away with stealing more then $10,000 in bridge jacks. Because her parents never turned her in for all the stealing she's done since she was 5 years old.
His oldest girl pushed her way onto our 6.5 acres of land and put a house, even though i was totally against it. I've forbidden the middle girl from being here, because she is a thief, and has after numerous chances, proven to be that over and over.
Everything just seems to pile up on me. Last May, i tried to kill myself. It was a combination of steroid injections into my back, and a prescribed overdose of anti-depressants. Plus my cat was gutted on Christmas Eve last year by his middle child's pit bull. No apology, no remorse nothing. (Kat was born to a drop off cat about 2 weeks after my last failed pregnancy. I hand raised her as her mom tried to kill her, and the rest of the litter) Valentines day, we had to humainly put down our 15 year old Chocolate lab. She couldn't stand up on her own, or walk without us moving her. Libby's hips were shot. Then two days before my attempt, we had to put down our 6 year old Shelty mix, Verdun. She almost took out our then 4 year old little girls eye. I was right there, she wasn't even touching Verdun. We have no idea why she would have hurt Helen. Then add the oldest girl, her two kids and two dogs living here, not helping with anything, not paying a bill. for 5 months my husband paid for her and her kids.
Now the eldest has a guy she's known for 3 weeks living with her. we don't know this man. he acts like the whole property is his to do with as he pleases. hunting, hiking whatever. There is no rights to anything, other then a driveway, and the house, nothing was signed, nothing was given. Not even a verbal agreement of her buying anything.
I have severe clinical depression, i'm bi-polar, severe anxiety. Then i have bi-lateral spinal stenosis. I'm not even able to pick my 5 year old little girl up. I was told i'll never have children again, after having 9 official pregnancies and only two surviving children. We have no insurance since my husband lost his job. Even though he retired after 33 years of military service, family insurance doesn't start until he's 60. He's covered. Our little girl has insurance. I don't. I'm supposed to be on 3 anti depressants, 2 anti psychotics, thyroid meds, blood pressure meds, and all the things i'm supposed to be on for my back.
I really just can't take anymore. I know everyone always says "He only gives you what you can handle" Honestly, i reached my limit back in May, and overdosed on pain meds. The only reason i haven't offed myself, is i dont want to see my youngest raised anything like his other two kids. I'm really contemplating moving away from here. My parents are up in Illinois, as well as my eldest daughter. I just can't do this anymore. i feel like i'm drowning. please help
