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mendez

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Why do men never understand woman! WHY! I'm going through a lot of emotional stress and now he says why I put the blame on the baby. I just can not understand why men think we do not go through post portrom.
 

PopClick

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Welcome to cc, mendez. :) I'll pray for you, I don't think I have anything to offer in the way of advice.

3Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, 4who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. 5For just as the sufferings of Christ are ours in abundance, so also our comfort is abundant through Christ.
 

damombomb

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having children does mess with the harmones, but it will balance out
lord let her overcome this and bring them joy
In Jesus name
 
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JoyFisher

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Mendez, he doesn't understand your experience. He can't and he never will because he can't give birth. Is there somebody else you can talk to that understands what you are going through? A friend or family member that can support you?
 

Twinkle77

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Hello Mendez
Sorry that you re going through stress at this moment.
Men are very different from women and they cannot comprehend what we women go through because
they have never experienced the emotional, physically and spiritual feelings of the 9 months of pregnancy.
They do feel the emotional & spiritual (believers) side as in the expectation of a child but women feel the entire change in the body (mind, heart & spirit) because we are the ones carrying the child in us and we feel the changes inside of us as the months go by. Men don't.

Children are a blessing from God and congratulations on your baby.
I pray that God's love will grow more and more in abundance in you, and you then pass it on to your child and to your husband and that you will be a living testimony of God's love to them.

Take hold of God's word and rest in it. I pray and ask God to give you wisdom on how to manage your situation and I ask God to put compassion and understanding in your husband's heart. I also pray that God will set your body and heart at rest. In Jesus name. Amen.
 

loveme1

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Forgive him, take the time to Pray for comfort and calmness at this time for you all.

It is a testing time for you all.

He can not understand how you feel, because he does not know, for he is a man.

Men do not experience Birth it is woman's experience during life here.


May Yahvah God and Yahshua the Messiah Bless you all.
 
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shekaniah

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When I wanted my husband to read about something.
I would find an article and place it where he would find it.

( Put it in his socks or lunch box.)

I would pray that God would give him wisdom and insight too.

That is my prayer for you both!
Maybe a little peace and comfort too!
Love in Jesus, Shekaniah
 
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kenisyes

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Why do men never understand woman! WHY! I'm going through a lot of emotional stress and now he says why I put the blame on the baby. I just can not understand why men think we do not go through post portrom.
I don't understand it either, of course. But I do remember it, and menopause. And I learned a lot of tolerance, as did Anna for what I go through. God needs you both to get closer and to realize that the differences are complementary.