I am looking for some advice. I caught my husband cheating on me and we are now going through the divorce process. It's heart breaking, and I know what the Bible says about divorce.
Sorry to hear about your situation, but unfortunately life can be a real pain in the arse, generally due to others sticking the knife into us!
I have been divorced almost 20 years, haven't married again yet, but certainly it is my intention to.
So, how you might possibly deal with it:
1) Use this time to get close to the Lord Jesus and strengthen your faith.
2) Get good (Christian) friends around you, people you
TRUST, people who are
NOT going to criticise, judge and condemn you because you are getting a divorce (because of your husband's infidelity), it is generally Christians who like to point the finger at people getting a divorce, avoid them like the plague, they just poison your soul!
3) Look upon this as a door shuting in your life and a new one opening, the Lord Jesus knew about this situation
BEFORE creation and He has prepared a future for you in Him! Deut 33v27, Jer 29v11, Acts 15v8, Rom 8v28, Rev 3v7,8
4) Make sure you are in a good fellowship/church, a place where you can actually
FEEL the Presence of God and His Love, if you can't feel these (as well as truth being preached) you are in the wrong Church!
5) And lastly, time is a
GREAT healer, along with the Lord Jesus ofcourse. Isaiah 61v1
Yahweh Shalom...