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Zammer

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How long ago was this? I agree with everyone about moving on, but also know how hard this is. You were blindsided and he has taken control. But you can probably never trust him again. I would reject his gifts. He can't put things back that way, and you can't move on if you let him do this. Why did you have to leave the country, may I ask?
 
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Whatnexthazel

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This happened at the end of Feb this year, and I had to leave as I had no income or home to live in . I really am trying to move forward, just my heart still belongs to him, how do I get free of my prison of love for this human being ???
 
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This happened at the end of Feb this year, and I had to leave as I had no income or home to live in . I really am trying to move forward, just my heart still belongs to him, how do I get free of my prison of love for this human being ???
I hate to say it, but the only way to get free is time. Focus on yourself. Cling to God and allow Him to work in you. As time goes on, you will feel more and more free from him and at peace. In my opinion, it can't be forced. You have to grieve the situation and give it time. But, focusing on yourself and your relationship with God will be a good distraction. (Just speaking from my experience.)