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IM A MOTHER OF TWO GIRLS. MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER SINCE 2007 AND MARRIED SINCE 2013. OUR RELATIONSHIP ISN'T IN A GOOD PLACE. YEARS AGO BEFORE WE WERE MARRIED I WAS SEXTING ON TWO DIFFERENT OCCASIONS. TWO DIFFERENT GUYS. I JUST WANTED ATTENTION. MY HUSBAND DIDN'T LIKE MY WEIGHT AFTER I HAD OUR FIRST CHILD I WAS DEPRESSED FELT UNLOVED. WHEN WE GOT MARRIED I THOUGHT THINGS WERE GETTING BETTER I THOUGHT HE WAS OVER IT. I DIDN'T DO IT EVER AGAIN. I VALUE OUR MARRIAGE BUT HE ISN'T INSTEAD HE CONSTANTLY ASK ME WHO IM TALKING TO DID I HAVE ANYONE HERE IN OUR HOUSE ITS DEPRESSING I FEEL LIKE I CANT DO ANYTHING. IVE BEEN TRYING TO COPE WITH THIS BECAUSE I KNOW HE NEEDS TO HEAL BUT I TOLD HIM I DID IT TO MAKE ME FEEL BETTER TO MAKE ME FEEL ATTRACTIVE TO MAKE ME FEEL LIKE A WANTED WOMAN. HE USE TO MAKE ME FEEL LIKE A MAID A CHEF LIKE I WAS SUPPOSE TO DO IT I DIDN'T GET ANYTHING IN RETURN ALL HIS ATTENTION WAS FOCUSED ON THE PS3 AND THE BABY AND WORK ITS LIKE I DIDN'T EXIST. I TOLD HIM ITS NOT FAIR TO EXPECT ALL OF THE THINGS A GIRL IS SUPPOSE TO GIVE AND NOT GIVE A GIRL ANYTHING IN RETURN NOT EVEN ATTENTION BUT YET WANT HER TO STAY FAITHFUL. IM TRYING TO STAY IN THIS MARRIAGE BUT I REFUSE TO BE IN A MARRIAGE UNHAPPY IM CONSIDERING LEAVING I DON' T KNOW THO. I MISS BEING HAPPY I MISS BEING THE OLD ME IM LOST AND CONFUSED. I DON'T FEEL LIKE IM THE MOTHER I SHOULD BE THE MOTHER I COULD BE I FEEL LIKE A PERSON THATS JUST SITTING HERE NOT LIVING. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.