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VioletReigns

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Jesus says, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”

What would I want someone to do for me if I was entrapped in a web of chaos, loneliness, despair, illness, seduction, idolatry, anxiety or unforgiveness? If I was a victim and prisoner of the principalities and dark rulers of this world? I can tell you the most significant times in my walk in the Lord have been when genuine godly friends of Christ, being boldly honest with me with the Word made my eyes open and I found deliverance from the things of this world.

A true friend would not appease you and let you sink into the mire because they don’t want to be thought of as stern or unpopular or too holy. My truest friends were those who were honest and brave and who shook me out of darkness, snatched me out of blindness by boldly speaking the truth of God, who loved me enough to offer me real help in my time of need and in ungodly confusion. Praise God for those faithful loving friends who did not allow me to be overcome by the work of the enemy. Praise God!!! \:)/

Idolatry is epidemic in this world and in these last days it is almost impossible to see the enemy at work because our eyes are focused on the flesh and feelings and circumstances, all temporary things. People are too concerned about how they look and don’t want to rock the boat. But Jesus still reigns and still delivers us from the hand of the adversary by His Word of Truth through His faithful followers. Jesus will not let us fall captive and will use His godly people to warn us of the attacks of the enemy. Hallelujah! Thank you Jesus for Your faithfulness and love in setting us free!! Thank you for building up a holy people who will speak the Truth on Your behalf!

Will we listen to the Savior Jesus so that we will offer His way of escape to those around us in dire need? Or will we be offended at His Word and allow our friends and family to be overcome by the devil because we don’t want to be judged as too stern? I pray the Lord deliver us from the hand of the enemy and the lies that seek to hold us captive to destroy us. In Jesus’ Holy and righteous name, may we be set free to have abundant life in Him! We repent of idolatry and fear and doubt, Lord Jesus!!

Remember, when we are face-to-face with the King of Kings, the Lord is going to say to us,
"When you did it to the least of these My brethren, you have done it to Me.” What will we answer? “I died to my pride and my flesh and told them the Truth, Lord Jesus for Your sake.” Or will we say, “I was too afraid to tell them the Truth, Lord because I didn’t want to look unpopular or holier-than-thou.”

We need to be faithful friends who genuinely love others with Agape love and won’t let the enemy rule them or their families' lives! Do we love one another enough to be that kind of friend? To show one another the Cross of Jesus so that the wolf in sheep’s clothing won’t steal, kill and destroy us and our families? Or are we more concerned with giving each other temporary feelings of happiness in the web of lies that the devil seeks to keep us in?

There is no hope in feelings of temporary excitement in friendship with the world. Either the Word of God in Christ Jesus crucified is offensive, foolish and inconvenient… or it is Light and Life to us! May the Lord reign forever in our lives!
 
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honeybee

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If the people are a true Christian they understand marriage is sacred and when your spouse dies the emotions are strong. Non Christian men are not awaree of you doo not just move on.
 
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JesusistheChrist

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Jesus says, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”

What would I want someone to do for me if I was entrapped in a web of chaos, loneliness, despair, illness, seduction, idolatry, anxiety or unforgiveness? If I was a victim and prisoner of the principalities and dark rulers of this world? I can tell you the most significant times in my walk in the Lord have been when genuine godly friends of Christ, being boldly honest with me with the Word made my eyes open and I found deliverance from the things of this world.

A true friend would not appease you and let you sink into the mire because they don’t want to be thought of as stern or unpopular or too holy. My truest friends were those who were honest and brave and who shook me out of darkness, snatched me out of blindness by boldly speaking the truth of God, who loved me enough to offer me real help in my time of need and in ungodly confusion. Praise God for those faithful loving friends who did not allow me to be overcome by the work of the enemy. Praise God!!! \:)/

Idolatry is epidemic in this world and in these last days it is almost impossible to see the enemy at work because our eyes are focused on the flesh and feelings and circumstances, all temporary things. People are too concerned about how they look and don’t want to rock the boat. But Jesus still reigns and still delivers us from the hand of the adversary by His Word of Truth through His faithful followers. Jesus will not let us fall captive and will use His godly people to warn us of the attacks of the enemy. Hallelujah! Thank you Jesus for Your faithfulness and love in setting us free!! Thank you for building up a holy people who will speak the Truth on Your behalf!

Will we listen to the Savior Jesus so that we will offer His way of escape to those around us in dire need? Or will we be offended at His Word and allow our friends and family to be overcome by the devil because we don’t want to be judged as too stern? I pray the Lord deliver us from the hand of the enemy and the lies that seek to hold us captive to destroy us. In Jesus’ Holy and righteous name, may we be set free to have abundant life in Him! We repent of idolatry and fear and doubt, Lord Jesus!!

Remember, when we are face-to-face with the King of Kings, the Lord is going to say to us,
"When you did it to the least of these My brethren, you have done it to Me.” What will we answer? “I died to my pride and my flesh and told them the Truth, Lord Jesus for Your sake.” Or will we say, “I was too afraid to tell them the Truth, Lord because I didn’t want to look unpopular or holier-than-thou.”

We need to be faithful friends who genuinely love others with Agape love and won’t let the enemy rule them or their families' lives! Do we love one another enough to be that kind of friend? To show one another the Cross of Jesus so that the wolf in sheep’s clothing won’t steal, kill and destroy us and our families? Or are we more concerned with giving each other temporary feelings of happiness in the web of lies that the devil seeks to keep us in?

There is no hope in feelings of temporary excitement in friendship with the world. Either the Word of God in Christ Jesus crucified is offensive, foolish and inconvenient… or it is Light and Life to us! May the Lord reign forever in our lives!
One of my favorite portions of scripture is the following:

"Open rebuke is better than secret love. Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful." (Proverbs 27:5-6)

If I was headed in a potentially dangerous or even damnable direction, then I would want somebody to tell me so and I would count them as my FRIEND for doing so. Nowadays, however, when somebody does the same they're more often than not labeled as being "judgmental", "critical", "condescending", "holier than thou", "self-righteous", "a Pharisee", etc., etc., etc. Believe me, I've been called all of those things and much, much worse more times than I care to remember. Here's the thing, though...

God has NEVER called me the same and He knows why I warn others even as I warn myself. In the end, only His judgment will matter.

"Let the righteous smite me; it shall be a kindness: and let him reprove me; it shall be an excellent oil, which shall not break my head: for yet my prayer also shall be in their calamities." (Psalm 141:5)
 
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honeybee

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women use the ignore button men pm with out caring. India and Asia their culture they hurrass women in pms just hit ignore
 
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honeybee

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I miss my mate beyond belief give him back right now God
 
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Kaycie

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Sometimes love has to be tough love. Sometimes you just have to snatch them from the fire (Jude 123) like the angels did to Lot (Genesis 19:16). People tell you what you want to hear, but true friends tell you what you need to hear.
 
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VioletReigns

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If the people are a true Christian they understand marriage is sacred and when your spouse dies the emotions are strong. Non Christian men are not awaree of you doo not just move on.
I am so very sorry you lost your husband, sister Honeybee. I am also a widow and know the pain of losing a best friend and companion. I pray you allow the Lord to heal and comfort your heart and hold onto the blessed assurance that you will again see your spouse in Glory some day and time will be no more. No more separation, no more tears, no more pain!

As for the men you say are harassing you, just report them immediately to the Administrators by forwarding their messages and user names and they will be banned from the site.
 
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Kaycie

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I miss my mate beyond belief give him back right now God
I hear your pain. I'm thankful that you found your soulmate, that you got to hold him in your arms and cherish him, even for a little while, some are not that blessed. I know not why you lost your precious husband, but a single thread cannot know the reason for its placement in the pattern of a designer rug. God knows the whole picture, please don't blame Him. When Joseph was sold into slavery and falsely put in prison, he couldn't see how his suffering would save his family and all of Egypt. God knows what He is doing, and someday we will understand, and will never suffer again. Just focus on God so that you can go to heaven and see your husband again.

Song...

Oh where oh where can my baby be?
The Lord took him away from me.
He's gone to heaven so I've got to be good
So I can see my baby when I leave this world

I know words are just a bandaid when you need surgery, but even if it's small, I wish to bring you comfort. And this is what I'd want someone to say to me if I was in your situation. Please know that I, and others do feel your pain, and we do care.