No, the divorce has been filed since I wrote the original post years ago. It’s just been drawn out and very nasty. He has demanded a lot and done a lot. The judge is military biased so he gives my husband anything he requests because “he is in the military”. I am still waiting. He has been very abusing and I moved with my children to another state so they can have a sense of normalcy and safety. Well I will be going to court in a few weeks for contempt that he filed against me for moving out of state. Not sure what will happen but this guy is trying to destroy me and my children at every step. He even went on a viscous attack against me and both of my kids. Nothing is happening though because he is military and is getting free passes left and right.
Only God can save my kids and I. If he chooses not to, we will be meeting Him sooner than later because my someday ex will make sure that we do and nothing will be done. He is using our son as leverage to control me and the state is allowing it to happen.
Can you hire a private detective? The military is against adultery and if you can prove what you are saying the judge can be swayed in your favor..,a good lawyer would be good too.
Yes there is corruption but you have money and he doesnt, right?
Most military men I know would meet him at night with a pillow case filled of soap,...heard that doesn't leave bruises...(maybe I shouldn't reveal that I know folks like that,but they believe in defending women and children from abusers and as Tourist said the guy is a jerk.
Anyway will keep you in prayers.
I had thought two years later the divorce would have gone through...Will pray that God send some smart compassionate lawyer to help you deal with this mess.