Secular-FEMINISM is contrary to WOMANHOOD in GOD"S PLAN!

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I am posting my reasons why I believe that "Secular-FEMINISM is contrary to WOMANHOOD in GOD"S PLAN!"
I will be posting my argument both from the standpoint of philosophy and from the standpoint of theology (i.e. reason and faith) in two separate posts. My argument grew as an offshoot from a previous post in which I stated that I am looking for a woman who has not been corrupted by the lie of feminism, I subsequently received a barrage of ridicule from angry feminatzis who call themselves "christian" as well as from (w)ussified men who have accepted to be neutered of their God given role as men before the cultural stronghold of feminism. *I am re-posting parts of text from previous dialogues from that post, and I am removing any usernames.

If you agree or disagree with my conclusion that "Secular-FEMINISM is contrary to WOMANHOOD in GOD"S PLAN," please tell, and why. (Please note that hurling insults at me at a personal level does not count as a valid logical reason to discredit my claim. Also please note that I am not opening the floor for shallow statements as to how you "feel" about things, I am asking for proper philosophical and theological reasons. I am am wrong in my claim, please convince me! Thank you for your attention!

Sincerely,
28Man_Seeking_Wife
 
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THE SECULAR FEMINIST ARGUMENT:



Contemporary feminism hasn't "destroyed marriage and family life." Social and cultural evolution progresses on behalf of a number of quantifiable variables, including society's political and economic climate, social liberalism and conservatism and the public sphere's reaction to these ideologies, the presence and proliferation of political countercultures, and the like. To assert that any one phenomenon in particular is responsible for the state of affairs of any broad societal construct, including marriage, is superficial -- and, in [28_Man_Seeking_Wife's] case, it's really rather hyperbolic. The implications of social feminism can be debated ad nauseum, and without any clear verdict, although there's no credible evidence to suggest that feminism in particular has "destroyed" anything from the perspective of mainstream political science.

I'd also have to disagree with the notion that contemporary feminism can be construed as a "lie." While it may be true that the notion of female social equality to males is arguably against Biblical scripture, the rights and liberties of women from within the context of a proper, secular democratic society inherently need to be addressed. Irrespective of one's religious preference, the philosophical concept of liberty and justice for all in any society that values equal rights should be upheld and respected in the highest degree. Whether or not the social ramifications of these rights and liberties can be construed as positive or negative is inconsequential so long as their impact isn't drastic enough to imminently threaten the safety and security of others. The ultimate goal of contemporary feminism, which is to realize nearly or totally absolute social, economic and political equality of both genders, is thus to the benefit of the objective of Western democratic society toward the ideal of freedom and justice for all.

What women do with themselves within the context of this society is then up to the woman in particular, and that's exactly how it should be. Period. And, to reiterate, countless variables besides contemporary feminism have to be accounted for in determining society's state of affairs from a social perspective, as well as the existence of global perspectives that offer interestingly comparative statistics and implications. It can't be stressed enough that there's no real evidence of contemporary feminism being an agent in the purported "destruction" of "marriage and family values" and the like.



Theology has nothing to do with the intrinsically social nature of the status of contemporary marriage and family structure. Theologians deal predominantly in spiritual matters pertaining to God and the nature of religious beliefs, not extrapolations from religious beliefs. Theology may offer an opinion on a given social matter, but it can't markedly associate anything without alluding to political science, demographics, or the like.

MY COUNTER TO THE SECULAR FEMINIST ARGUMENT
FROM THE POINT OF VIEW OF HUMAN REASON:

The words of the Secular Feminist will always be cited in bold. She is disagreeing with my thesis that “Contemporary feminism has"destroyed marriage and family life." She offers three premises in support of her argument against me that “there's no credible evidence to suggest that feminism in particular has "destroyed" anything from the perspective of mainstream political science.” I will treat the three premises that she uses successively and individually.

PREMISE I:
Her first premise rests on is that any cultural phenomena [such as the breakdown of marriage and family] happens when “Social and cultural evolution progresses on behalf of a number of quantifiable variables, including society's political and economic climate, social liberalism and conservatism and the public sphere's reaction to these ideologies, the presence and proliferation of political countercultures, and the like.”


Her line of thought is as follows: The so called “destruction of marriage” is itself a phenomena that is found in the mix of history (it is a product of the coming together of various “quantifiable variables”). Accordingly, it is arbitrary to identify the historical feminism movement as the cause of the cultural phenomena of the breakdown of marriage and family, since “from the perspective of mainstream political science,” only a plurality of “quantifiable variables” can bring about such an occurance.


There is actually an embedded philosophy that is hidden in her argument. It is my job as a philosopher to expose it for the common good :D She is presupposing a method of looking at reality as if nature itself is a mere conglomeration of empirical “quantifiable” parts (this is a peculiarly post-enlightenment modern-way of thinking developed by Sir Isaac Newton, Francis Bacon, and Rene Descartes amongst others). There is nothing wrong with modern science. This way of looking things that exist is fine when you need to figure out how to create a propulsion fuel that will send a rocket to the moon, or when you want to build a bridge or do any kind of utilitarian work involving mechanistic 'parts' that are empirically observable.

But when it is a question of studying the beauty and goodness of human nature, the modern mechanistic science of “quantifiable parts” reaches its limit. Masculinity and femininity is not just an empirical “phenomena” that happened to come to about by chance as a result impersonal forces. The beauty and goodness of manhood and womanhood speaks of another more robust and deeper manner of studying reality and nature (this is the way of western philosophy and Christian theology which used to hold prominence before the dawn of secular humanism following the “enlightenment.”) Main stream political science operates under the assumption that everything we can study in society is simply a product of forces that happen to come together (this is what Liza refers to when she mentions “society's political and economic climate, social liberalism and conservatism and the public sphere's reaction to these ideologies, the presence and proliferation of political countercultures, and the like”). Mainstream political science is incapable (on its own terms) of grasping the essence of Human Nature (and therefore what true femininity is) because it is constricted to operate within its own limited method of analyzing the world in terms of what is “quantifiable” as parts. Only a more profound and lucid way of looking at reality can realize that the proper goodness and beauty of “masculinity” and “femininity” within family life is not just the result a conglomeration of a plurality of worldly-based factors. The cause of the beauty of man and woman and of the goodness of the institute of marriage and the specific gender-roles that it involves is the result of FREEDOM. Only FREEDOM can create beauty and goodness. Quantifiable parts cannot cause beauty and goodness to come to exist out of nothing. A person who is FREE TO CREATE needs to be there to bestow order and purpose to whatever comes to exist as something meaningfull. (Christians and Jews understand this to be God in the original act of Creation). That quantifiable-wordly-phenomena cannot be the original-absolute source of goodness and beauty is evident to human reason regardless of whether or not one is speaking religiously. We do not need “religious faith” to know this, this is a rational point.

Contrary to what the Secular Feminist is arguing, I hold that the break-down of marriage and family life is not just a occurrence that just so happened to come together from various economic and political factors operative in history in a general sense. Our Secular Feminist's claim that “there's no credible evidence to suggest that feminism in particular has "destroyed" anything from the perspective of mainstream political science” is correct only if we accept that the “perspective of mainstream political science” exhausts all true perspectives. I propose that our Secular Feminist woman is wrong in thinking this way. It is reductive. It limits the study of human actions to modern sociology and modern political science (which is rooted in a purely empirical method of analysis). I answer that the break down of marriage and family life can only be caused by specific persons who are endowed with FREEDOM. The demise of marriage and family life is caused by all those who freely reject what is given to us as “femininity” and “masculinity” in its original beauty and goodness (and that is what secular feminism accomplishes).

(Response to Secular Feminist Continued)

PREMISE II


She writes: “Irrespective of one's religious preference, the philosophical concept of liberty and justice for all in any society that values equal rights should be upheld and respected in the highest degree... What women do with themselves within the context of this society is then up to the woman in particular, and that's exactly how it should be. Period.”


She is presupposing that the modern system of a democratic state is correct in placing all the emphasis on the fulfillment of the individual who is acting. This is a direct inheritance from the political philosophy of John Locke and Hobbes. It's logic is similar in as much as it bars out the relevance of the freedom of a person who lies BEYOND any worldly force, namely, the freedom of GOD who wills to create what is good and beautiful. It is certainly true that people [who themselves are free] are capable of deviating from the will of God, it is certainly true that every individual human being has the capacity to exercise his or her own freedom to do as they please: but that does not justify the Secular Feminist's point that “What women do with themselves within the context of this society is then up to the woman in particular, and that's exactly how it should be. Period.” What if the women want to kill their own unborn children in the womb? What if women want to have success and a career more than they want to be a sacrificial presence for their family? When she says that “the philosophical concept of liberty and justice for all in any society that values equal rights should be upheld and respected in the highest degree”, she means the modern post-enlightenment concept of liberty developed in John Locke and Hobbes and applied in contemporary American constitutional-law. The Secular Feminist apparently does not realize that the modern democratic forms of government and its accompanying language of “individual rights” is not fool-proof morally speaking. The “ individual freedom” of a democratic republic can error, and it does (it did when it made child-murder a recreational activity under the feminist guise of “a woman's right to choose” when the U.S. supreme court ruled in “Roe vs Wade” for example). Under the post-enlightenment “philosophical concept of liberty” that the Secular Feminist is apparently so committed to, in the United States over 50 million innocent lives have been lost in the name of the feministic “right to choose.” Under the same “philosophical concept of liberty,” Marriage itself has been re-defined by the state so that homosexuality is no longer considered immoral by the vast majority of the public. Soon, the legalization of polygamy is likely to follow... I think both you (and modern secular-humanist democracy) are missing something from the equation, O misguided Secular Feminist... Goodness and beauty does not originate in human freedom, it originates in the intention of a Divine Creator. The lie of secular-feminism is that women can individually re-create for themselves what it means to be a good and beautiful woman-- even if to 'such and such' an individual it means murdering their own child so that they can have a lavish career. Again, my criticism of her 2[SUP]nd[/SUP] premise is not simply a “religious” argument that owes its credibility to faith, my criticism is entirely based on reason, I have not quoted scripture once.

PREMISE III

Theology has nothing to do with the intrinsically social nature of the status of contemporary marriage and family structure. Theologians deal predominantly in spiritual matters pertaining to God and the nature of religious beliefs, not extrapolations from religious beliefs. Theology may offer an opinion on a given social matter, but it can't markedly associate anything without alluding to political science, demographics, or the like.”


Huh? Let me get this straight: The reality of God [if indeed the pagan philosophers Plato and Aristotle were right in positing through the use of their human reason that One God who orders the cosmos does exist] and the discipline which studies the link between God and the whole of nature (i.e. Theology) has nothing to do with the “intrinsically social nature of the status of contemporary marriage and family structure” as you say? I might be tempted to call your reasoning absurd, but I understand where you are coming from. It is important that anyone else who follows this thread understands as well. Lisa stated that “Theology may offer an opinion on a given social matter, but it can't markedly associate anything without alluding to political science, demographics, or the like.” This reveals that the Secular Feminist is thoroughly taken in by the false secular-human ideology that wants to reduce everything to a purely human science, so that the transcendent and divine has no real relevance or importance to practical human civilization. In the old-world, before globalized atheism took affect in all modern world governments, Theology was considered the Queen of the sciences, so that any human affair (political, spiritual, domestic, whatever) found it's ultimate order and principle in the goodness and beauty of a Logos (Greek) or Ratio (Latin) which transcended the world: GOD. Today, contemporary western society may pay lip service to a “God” by having his name inscribed on our currency or perhaps having invoking his name at baseball games, but on the grand scale human freedom has ousted any transcendent cause from human affairs. Most evident of what I am saying is the current conditions of marriage and family life in America. People who think with Secular Feminism that “spiritual matters pertaining to God and the nature of religious beliefs” has nothing to do with the intrinsic identity of gender-roles and family structure certainly must have SOMETHING to do with the break down of marriage and family life in the culture. It has EVERYTHING to do with it.
 

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I am posting my reasons why I believe that "Secular-FEMINISM is contrary to WOMANHOOD in GOD"S PLAN!"
I will be posting my argument both from the standpoint of philosophy and from the standpoint of theology (i.e. reason and faith) in two separate posts. My argument grew as an offshoot from a previous post in which I stated that I am looking for a woman who has not been corrupted by the lie of feminism, I subsequently received a barrage of ridicule from angry feminatzis who call themselves "christian" as well as from (w)ussified men who have accepted to be neutered of their God given role as men before the cultural stronghold of feminism. *I am re-posting parts of text from previous dialogues from that post, and I am removing any usernames.

If you agree or disagree with my conclusion that "Secular-FEMINISM is contrary to WOMANHOOD in GOD"S PLAN," please tell, and why. (Please note that hurling insults at me at a personal level does not count as a valid logical reason to discredit my claim. Also please note that I am not opening the floor for shallow statements as to how you "feel" about things, I am asking for proper philosophical and theological reasons. I am am wrong in my claim, please convince me! Thank you for your attention!

Sincerely,
28Man_Seeking_Wife
I believe in spiritual feminism but find serious fault with the secular variety as it will diminish the role of a husband in the marriage. A biblical wife will submit to the husband and a biblical husband will love his wife and take care of her as she is the weaker vessel.

I am in agreement of the premise of your position of this issue. Right on, brother!
 
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TYPO: "I am am wrong in my claim, please convince me!"

should read: "If I am wrong in my claim, please convince me!"
 
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MY APPEAL TO THEOLOGY:

WHY SECULAR FEMINISM IS DESTROYING MARRIAGE AND FAMILY LIFE
PRECISELY BECAUSE IT IS CONTRARY TO GOD'S PLAN FOR MARRIED LOVE


In a nut shell, the "virtue" of a woman is revealed in the relationship with Christ and his Church in divine revelation (the model of "bride" and "groom" in Ephesians chapter 5, and also the model seen between Adam and Eve before the Fall in the book of Genesis. Adam is definitely the head of the woman, and Christ is definitely the head of the Church). What a "good" and "beautiful" wife is implies certain ways of thinking and living that respects the truth of God's plan of "headship" revealed in scripture.

I say that "Secular-Feminism" is not just a matter of "social rights and privileges and status", it runs deeper than that. The foundation of secular-feminism is ultimately is a rejection of God's plan for what "masculinity" and "femininity" really is. The last thing that any feminist will ever agree to is that there is a right way, and a wrong way, to be a spouse. Many young Christian women today (whether they realize it or not) have been brainwashed by atheistic ways of thinking, so that authentic love in the truth God's plan is virtually impossible to live out with them.

I do not wish to marry a woman who is going to want to get her tubes tied, or who will want me to sterilize myself, or who will want to get an abortion, or who down the road file for a divorce simply because it is her "right" to. I do not want a woman who is going to love the worldly idea of "career success" more than the idea of raising children who fear God. There IS such a thing as "headship" in marriage. God said so:

"Being subject one to another, in the fear of Christ. Let women be subject to their husbands, as to the Lord: Because the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church. He is the saviour of his body. Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so also let the wives be to their husbands in all things. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ also loved the church, and delivered himself up for it" (Letter to the Ephesians, 5:23).

The man (Adam) was created to be the bread winner, to go out and dominate the earth. The woman (Eve) was created to be a source of maternal compassion. With Christianity, this does not change, human nature does not change. That is why St. Paul says "husbands love your wives as Christ loved the Church", and "wives be submissive to your husbands". I am NOT saying that a man ought to be a TYRANT over his wife. I am saying that there is such a thing as "headship" in God's plan that creates an order and harmony in the dynamics between husband and wife. This order and harmony rests on mutual sacrifice on both the man and woman's part. Jesus Christ is the role model for what spousal love is supposed to look like. Both spouses ought to be willing to die to 'self' for the sake of their beloved, just like Christ was willing to die for his bride, the Church. The husband's sacrifice is colored by the unchangeable identity of what it means to be a "MAN". The woman's sacrifice is colored by the unchangeable identity of what it means to be a "WOMAN". Since the man was made from "the dust of the earth", he is closer to the earth, he is made to dominate the earth, thus his role as husband will look a certain way. The woman, being taken from the "rib" of Adam, is more refined in her human quality of love, she is more sensitive, her heart is deeper, her spirit is able to suffer from compassion in a way that stands out from the suffering of a man. Woman is made so that everything about her is made to be a gift of self to another (even in her flesh and blood, which creates new human beings in pregnancy). But both masculine and feminine qualities are not just 'physical' limited to DNA, it is a quality of the human soul that makes masculinity and femininity what it is. It is a quality that comes from the human capacity to LOVE, to choose to SACRIFICE. You better be sure that God made this quality, and this it is unchangeable throughout all of history.

It is impossible to disconnect the contemporary idea of a "woman's right to choose" (which is consonant with the suffrage movement that spawned Secular feminism) from the sins against love that plague marriage and family today. The lie of secular feminism is to tell women that it is by being independent and asserting their own individual right to choose anything and everything that they will bring glory to themselves. But this is a lie that comes from the pits of hell, it is the same logic of Lucifer when Satan chose to embrace his own way of doing things and exalt his own Freedom over God. God created man and woman to compliment one another, and there is an order established by God within this complementarity which rests on the headship of Christ. This is what many Christian woman (on this site and everywhere else I go) obviously do not get. They follow the lie of Satan which has them believe that it is by self assertion (and not sacrifice) that glory comes to the human condition.

P.S. I am astounded that the "opinion" that I have just expressed (and which I stated previously using philosophy) is rejected by so many so called "christian" men and women on this website.
 

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TYPO: "I am am wrong in my claim, please convince me!"

should read: "If I am wrong in my claim, please convince me!"
As I am slightly dyslexic I did not catch that at firsst. I am still formulating the above in my head.
 

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TYPO: "I am am wrong in my claim, please convince me!"

should read: "If I am wrong in my claim, please convince me!"
Anyway... what's a little Freudian Slip amongst friends?

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Yes, very clever Maxwell, I am curious to know whether you agree or disagree with me though as I prefaced in my post, and I am interested in hearing a coherent logical philosophical or theological argument as to why you do. Thanks!

~28Man_Seeking_Wife
 
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I am posting my reasons why I believe that "Secular-FEMINISM is contrary to WOMANHOOD in GOD"S PLAN!"
I will be posting my argument both from the standpoint of philosophy and from the standpoint of theology (i.e. reason and faith) in two separate posts. My argument grew as an offshoot from a previous post in which I stated that I am looking for a woman who has not been corrupted by the lie of feminism, I subsequently received a barrage of ridicule from angry feminatzis who call themselves "christian" as well as from (w)ussified men who have accepted to be neutered of their God given role as men before the cultural stronghold of feminism. *I am re-posting parts of text from previous dialogues from that post, and I am removing any usernames.

If you agree or disagree with my conclusion that "Secular-FEMINISM is contrary to WOMANHOOD in GOD"S PLAN," please tell, and why. (Please note that hurling insults at me at a personal level does not count as a valid logical reason to discredit my claim. Also please note that I am not opening the floor for shallow statements as to how you "feel" about things, I am asking for proper philosophical and theological reasons. I am am wrong in my claim, please convince me! Thank you for your attention!

Sincerely,
28Man_Seeking_Wife
Hey there, 28.

You reckon that some feminists will be drawn to you like a moth to the candle flame?
Watch out now for them lining up at your door.

LOL
 
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I believe in spiritual feminism but find serious fault with the secular variety as it will diminish the role of a husband in the marriage. A biblical wife will submit to the husband and a biblical husband will love his wife and take care of her as she is the weaker vessel.

I am in agreement of the premise of your position of this issue. Right on, brother!
I am glad that I am not the only one who rejects the lie of secular-feminism Tourist!

Can you elaborate what you mean by "spiritual feminism"? I am guessing you mean something along the lines of "womanhood as God created womanhood to be" in contrast to what post-enlightenment secular atheism has construed womanhood to be?
 

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Hey there, 28.

You reckon that some feminists will be drawn to you like a moth to the candle flame?
Watch out now for them lining up at your door.

LOL
I really do not think that this is the issue or the plan. Speaking for myself, any feminists attracted to the candle flame will surely get burned.
 
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I really do not think that this is the issue or the plan. Speaking for myself, any feminists attracted to the candle flame will surely get burned.
Atwood is not totally off Tourist, Jesus said:

“I have come to bring fire on the earth, and how I wish it were already burning!" (Lk. 12:49)

The fire is truth, and feminatzis along with their neutered pets (the men of today who assent to secular-feminism) do need it.
 

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I am glad that I am not the only one who rejects the lie of secular-feminism Tourist!

Can you elaborate what you mean by "spiritual feminism"? I am guessing you mean something along the lines of "womanhood as God created womanhood to be" in contrast to what post-enlightenment secular atheism has construed womanhood to be?
I am not as eloquent as yourself so please forgive me. Personally, I am open for God to allow a spiritual woman to enter my heart once again. I am not as naïve to suggest that I am holding out for the Proverb 31 type of woman. After a certain age, we all accumulate baggage and things happen. I would consider only a woman who has the love of God in her heart, and once married, to do the things that would be pleasing to her husband. I am not talking exclusively about the physical aspect, but that is important as well. A woman with old-fashion values and not someone who is hung up on this woman's lib nonsense. This is the type of woman that I could love, any woman with inner beauty is beautiful on the outside as well. A woman who would be my best friend and traveling companion on our life's journey together. To make things clearer, I desire a woman who is feminine and has the love of God deep inside of her heart. To me, that's my definition so spiritual feminism.
 
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I am not as eloquent as yourself so please forgive me. Personally, I am open for God to allow a spiritual woman to enter my heart once again. I am not as naïve to suggest that I am holding out for the Proverb 31 type of woman. After a certain age, we all accumulate baggage and things happen. I would consider only a woman who has the love of God in her heart, and once married, to do the things that would be pleasing to her husband. I am not talking exclusively about the physical aspect, but that is important as well. A woman with old-fashion values and not someone who is hung up on this woman's lib nonsense. This is the type of woman that I could love, any woman with inner beauty is beautiful on the outside as well. A woman who would be my best friend and traveling companion on our life's journey together. To make things clearer, I desire a woman who is feminine and has the love of God deep inside of her heart. To me, that's my definition so spiritual feminism.
Okay thanks for the clarification! I think we are pretty much in agreement then. I would just say that, unfortunately, it is not enough anymore for a man to just say "I desire a woman who is feminine," because the true meaning of femininity has been hijacked. That is a word that is no longer intelligible for it's true meaning. I mean that the authentic identity "womanhood" according to the truth of God's plan has been erased from the memory of western-civilization. Authentic womanhood (and its implications in marriage) has been replaced by the selfish and materialistic ways of the new modern-atheistic-liberal culture. (This in turn impedes a woman from having "God's love deep inside her heart").
 
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As I have said, you are articulate and eloquent of speech. Your interpretation of what I attempted to say is spot on.
 

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You know, we have two huge threads on this topic already here. Why re-invent the wheel? Just read what is in the other threads, and I think you will find out where we all stand on this issue.

And just curious, are you distinguishing between secular feminism and the feminism that fights against abortion, abuse in marriage and was instrumental in establishing the vote for women?
 
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Meh plenty of women that aren't Feminazis brother 28man. I myself like a woman that's a lil outspoken so long as she is loyal, but meh, we all have our tastes, do we not?