Hi All, since I posted this I've looked into getting some help via a program in my state that might provide some in-home assistance. I'm not sure if it will happen, but I hope so. My Mom is a lovely person, but she has hoarding issues and is very hard on my home (broke the new dishwasher, damaged the fridge and walls, and puts things in the washing machine that shouldn't go in there). It's hard for me because I have always felt it's important to take care if the things you've been blessed with, but she has never taken care of things even as a young person. I grew up in a chaotic and filthy house, but at least I had a parent to take care of me, many do not, but as an adult I value calm, order, cleanliness at home, and I doubt I'll ever have that with her staying with me. But I still am proud to be taking care of her, and thank God for God and prayer!