As I read in here success is viewed as Christians could or should see it (that's another decision we have made). But the world insists on telling us on how to be "successful" even in teaching us the Church "lacks" LEADERS and astrong "leadership" (a thing I completelly regret).
Do you lack Christ as Lord and OUR LEADER?
Secular success is another lie to make us SECULAR (it's me who solely deserve being called secular in CC). Je! Je!
Rich and poor people considered themselves nothing, some commited suicide or abandoned themselves into drugs, alcohol, and sexual perversion (just to find the meaning of success).
Very achieving person were discontented, unhappy, because it wasn't enough what they got -for secular approval and admiration- and I am happy a knew a professor who threw his several diplomas under his closet, as if they were old newspapers (I tell you, because I saw those papers on the floor of his house, when I was in my 20's)
How many people, today, will be tempted when Satan came and would ask them: "Worship me" (serve me) and I will you this and this"... That reminds me of the "Matrix" movie. Someone in there wanted to "enjoy" life (even knowing that it wasn't real life) but he wanted to enjoy this worldly pleasure (just by telling the enemies where they are and killing the people who worked as a team).
Is it success? Getting money or pleasures by betraying friends? (I' happy I have few of them).
I, personally, don feel I live to "worship God" (I haven't seen HIM nor The Lord Jesus). My interaction with God is through HIS human beings, those who are instruments of HIS kindness and goodness.
In fact, without knowing, I felt successful when "seeing" faces, hearts and persons I DON KNOW who they are but, by faith, the turned SUCCESSFULLY to GOD, leaving the cult of Mammon, the cult of the Self and it Selfishness, while I see myself to far from the place I want to go.
I feel success when a COACH in here is happy when he helps others to achieve their goals (and that is how parents could be helping people to be "good" people). That is a good new I heard and would join to imitate.
Success seems to be a concept, and idea (or and idealization). I hope Christ, the Lord Jesus -one of these days- tell each of us: "¡Siervo!... Entra en el gozo de tu Señor..."
That's real success! Being hugged be the Lord Jesus and receiving God's approval one day aftere a day.