Father and Daughter Facing Incest Charges

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cmarieh

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In Oregon on a local news website, I found that a 49 year old man and his biological 25 year old daughter had two children together. Although the police never found any proof that any sexual contact happened when she was a minor. What is it with people in this world thinking it is okay to have sexual, physical contact with their children or any children for that matter. Sorry, I just needed to vent. It makes me so upset and disgusted that people like this exist. Any thoughts?
 

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Thank God that we are in the world and not of it.
 

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We need to pray for those kids yes. Of course that is a given, and for their mother. The source of this whole mess, sin yes, but that man needs serious prayer and counseling. They all need to hear the word of truth being that they will change their ways and go to Christ, they need that salvation.


Its rather disturbing and disgusting all at the same time in the sight of God. No doubt about that.
 
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This pair is going to get an attorney who will argue that, since the daughter is not a minor and apparently wasn't when the relationship started, it isn't any business of the state regarding their sexual relationship. He will further argue that, despite the fact Oregon State law defines incest as occurring when a person marries or engages in sexual intercourse or deviate sexual intercourse with another whom the person knows to be related to them. It is irrelevant under the law as to whether the relationship is legitimate or illegitimate, but it must involve whole- or half-blood relatives.

That is the exact same set of arguments that put chinks in the sodomy laws that eventually led to legalization of same-sex relationships.

It's a slippery slope, and we're already well down the hill from where we started.
 

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That's the funny thing about lawyers. Even tho witnesses are sworn to tell the truth, the whole truth, lawyers aren't sworn. And they won't ask for the whole truth, they elicit snippets of truth which they then sew together to cover a lie. And you're right, given enough time lawyers will degrade God's truth into irrelevancy. With both incest and pedophilia. After all, they, along with the same-sex thing, are of the same foundations.
 
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That is the exact same set of arguments that put chinks in the sodomy laws that eventually led to legalization of same-sex relationships.
Good thing we live in a nation of religious freedom or your comment would have some merit.

The problem with incest which justifies laws against it has to do with procreation and how unhealthy it is for two closely related people's offspring.

You keep wanting to keep stuff illegal because it goes against God. Due to the 1st Amendment, your argument is pointless since we can't base laws off of religious purposes. We can find other non-religious reasons to create laws though.
 
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In the end there is no law but God's. Man's laws will pass away, along with man (as we know him). And, could it be possible that God wrote the law against incest knowing how harmful it could be to the offspring?
 
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In the end there is no law but God's.
But not everyone believes in God. If you believe in God and you want to abide by his laws, go for it. If everyone else chooses not to abide by God's laws, then they'll have to take responsibility for what happens to them after they die.

Your logic is the exact same logic used by the Islamic State. They feel the Koran is the final authority on what should and should not be law, and therefore they force it on everyone. This is why America has the 1st Amendment, to prohibit religions from being forced onto people.

And, could it be possible that God wrote the law against incest knowing how harmful it could be to the offspring?
Great, so what? If God knew there would be negative consequences, thus why he made it a sin, then we can validate laws based on the negative consequences that are apparent.

I'm against laws based solely on whether or not something is a sin because we shouldn't all be forced to abide by a certain religion. Religion is a choice. And if people pick the wrong religion, that's their own problem that they'll have to face after they die.
 

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Unlike the Islamic State, we don't (or shouldn't) force people to follow. We are to inform/educate/advise, but you're right, we should never twist arms.
 
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Incest brings out recessive genes. I taught in a school for the mentally challenged one time. There were two cousins who married, and 3 of their 5 children had severe facial deformities and retardation. I imagine the expression of recessive genes between a father and daughter could be more severe.

Of course, the government and the tax payers have to try to educate and support these children for the rest of their lives. God stopped close relatives from marrying after the exodus for a reason. And that is to prevent birth defects, besides the obvious moral issues and power and control, especially in a father/daughter relationship.
 

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That's the funny thing about lawyers. Even tho witnesses are sworn to tell the truth, the whole truth, lawyers aren't sworn. And they won't ask for the whole truth, they elicit snippets of truth which they then sew together to cover a lie. And you're right, given enough time lawyers will degrade God's truth into irrelevancy. With both incest and pedophilia. After all, they, along with the same-sex thing, are of the same foundations.

the problem has nothing to do with lawyers. lawyers have the capability of doing good and bad, just like any profession. and depending upon the circumstances, attorneys can be the heroes and fighters of the righteous, the oppressed, and the wrongly accused/convicted (or wrongly treated).

the problem is that we live in a fallen world.
 

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Of course incest is an abomination.
But what do we see when we look at ourselves in the mirror (see James on mirror)?
 
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Unfortunately this is nothing new Genesis 19:36 Thus both the daughters of Lot were with child by their father.
 

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Disturbing but hey... their life. Not the Christian thing for sure but I'm guessing they probably aren't Christians. I don't condone or support this type of relationship but... who am I to judge. In all fairness... if gay people can get together as allowed by the state, there is no reason incest should not be allowed. Having a deformed baby is not a good enough reason as there are plenty of birth control available and abortions are available as well. And if you're gay AND in an incest relationship... well the excuse about babies really doesn't fly. They can adopt babies if they want kids.

Really I don't think the states should be able to squawk if someone wanted to marry multiple partners either. I'm serious. Fair is fair. I don't support or condone any of these actions but... it is what it is. God will judge in the end, not me.
 

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the problem has nothing to do with lawyers. lawyers have the capability of doing good and bad, just like any profession. and depending upon the circumstances, attorneys can be the heroes and fighters of the righteous, the oppressed, and the wrongly accused/convicted (or wrongly treated).

the problem is that we live in a fallen world.
I realize that there are good lawyers out there, but they are a small minority. I've had the misfortune to deal with 11 lawyers in my lifetime and there was only one of them that I wouldn't throw under the bus (he wrote our estate plan, not much to go wrong there... for now). My first wife's divorce attorney was so crooked I was able to compile 65 pages of evidence showing where he had lied to the judge. Took it to the DA, they laughed and were the ones to inform me that lawyers weren't sworn and could tell any dang lie they wanted to and there was no recourse. Seems they had heard it many many times before. Tried to present it to the judge but he wasn't interested. Neither was the state bar assoc. That crook cost me $65k in additional funds. The judge ordered me at the beginning to pay spousal support, I claimed she wasn't entitled (reasons too long to list here), attorney delayed trial for 5 years while I paid. In the end the judge ruled that 1. she was not entitled to support, 2. she did not have to pay it back, and 3. I had to pay her attorney fees because I increased her costs by making it an issue. So while you may be an honorable attorney, you and any others you may know need to get vocal and involved because the huge majority of them are crooks.


Apologies for the rant, apologies for the derailment.

And yes, none of this would be an issue if it weren't for our fallen world.
 
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Disturbing but hey... their life. Not the Christian thing for sure but I'm guessing they probably aren't Christians. I don't condone or support this type of relationship but... who am I to judge. In all fairness... if gay people can get together as allowed by the state, there is no reason incest should not be allowed. Having a deformed baby is not a good enough reason as there are plenty of birth control available and abortions are available as well. And if you're gay AND in an incest relationship... well the excuse about babies really doesn't fly. They can adopt babies if they want kids.

Really I don't think the states should be able to squawk if someone wanted to marry multiple partners either. I'm serious. Fair is fair. I don't support or condone any of these actions but... it is what it is. God will judge in the end, not me.
Incestuous relationships will happen at times whether they're legal or not, as will homosexual ones. The difference is incestuous relationships constitute a breach of trust; a breach of responibility; are psychologically damaging; are reproductively damaging to offspring; and are the kind of relationship we as a species biologically driven to broaden our gene pools are psychologically predisposed to avoid. Consensual incestuous relationships are extremely rare, for good reason.

Consensual homosexual relationships, contrastingly, are very prevalent and have ben for thousand of years. The Hindus called homosexuals ''the third kind'', after asexuals and heterosexuals. Consensual homosexual relationships are not any more psychologically damaging than heterosexual relationships; do not constitue breaches in trust or parental responsibility; do not need to take into account repoductive damage to offspring and are naturally occuring across various species with substantial frequency not very different than in humans.
 

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Incestuous relationships will happen at times whether they're legal or not, as will homosexual ones. The difference is incestuous relationships constitute a breach of trust; a breach of responibility; are psychologically damaging; are reproductively damaging to offspring; and are the kind of relationship we as a species biologically driven to broaden our gene pools are psychologically predisposed to avoid. Consensual incestuous relationships are extremely rare, for good reason.

Consensual homosexual relationships, contrastingly, are very prevalent and have ben for thousand of years. The Hindus called homosexuals ''the third kind'', after asexuals and heterosexuals. Consensual homosexual relationships are not any more psychologically damaging than heterosexual relationships; do not constitue breaches in trust or parental responsibility; do not need to take into account repoductive damage to offspring and are naturally occuring across various species with substantial frequency not very different than in humans.
I think an incestuous relationship would only be a breach of trust, responsibility, etc only if it wasn't consensual. As would be any relationship that wasn't consensual. I agree it could be reproductively damaging but there is plenty today where this can be avoided. As far as being psychologically predisposed to avoid because we're biologically driven to broaden our gene pool, how exactly does a homosexual relationship broaden the gene pool? Shouldn't we be psychologically predisposed to avoid those as well?

I agree homosexual relations have been prevalent throughout the years... I know as far as ancient times. But during these times when homosexuality was also very prevalent and recorded, there are plenty of examples of incest as well. Mostly during the Roman times and I know Cleopatra married her half brother. I think even Edgar Allan Poe married his cousin... In greek mythology, incest plays a major part in plenty of greek myths so it's obviously something people thought about even back then. In greek myths, incest is never treated as wrong or distasteful from what I can remember aside from the story of Oedipus. Even in the bible, whether people believe it's true, incest pops up plenty of times. Actually in the bible, there are plenty more mentions of incest and actual incestuous relations than homosexual anything. And this is AFTER it's declared as not ok in the bible. I think the only reason consensual incest relations are rare is because there is a very small pool to pick from. Where as anyone else has everyone else in the world who is not related to them to pick from.

Also... homosexuality occurs naturally across various species... actually it doesn't because nothing aside from humans living today belong to the genus "homo"... But yeah same sex relations, I get what you mean :p Animals do all sorts of weird things so I hardly see them as a way to validate what is natural or supposed to be. And I've seen way more frequent incestuous relations in animals than I have seen examples of same sex relations in animals. I've had cats, dogs, rabbits etc etc etc and just about everything will interbreed with it's parents, siblings etc... and what's a dog that likes to hump a pillow? If we're looking to the animals for what is natural, I think incest would be the first thing people would notice. That and that most animals have frequent multiple partners.

I don't agree with either but like I said, it's other peoples business and I really don't see how it's right to approve of one and deny the other. The only argument that holds any water is the damage to offsprings but like I said, there is so much out there to prevent that, not to mention just get an abortion... which I'm not okay with but I'm betting the people engaged in such a relationship wouldn't have a problem with it.
 
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Do the children have any medical issues that you know of? I can't imagine the far reaching emotional effects this situation will have on those poor children.
 
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I think an incestuous relationship would only be a breach of trust, responsibility, etc only if it wasn't consensual. As would be any relationship that wasn't consensual. I agree it could be reproductively damaging but there is plenty today where this can be avoided. As far as being psychologically predisposed to avoid because we're biologically driven to broaden our gene pool, how exactly does a homosexual relationship broaden the gene pool? Shouldn't we be psychologically predisposed to avoid those as well?
Gay relationships don't produce offspring. There's no need to think in procreational terms in such circumstances. If a man who is attracted to men has sex with a man, he doesn't need to think about looking for a mate outside his own gene pool to further his lineage in a way that benefits the immune system of the child, though, even in homosexual relationships, it is extremely rare to find incestuous ones, more so even than incestuous heterosexual relationships. This is probably for the same reasons; we're predisposed to look for mates outside our immediate families.

I agree homosexual relations have been prevalent throughout the years... I know as far as ancient times. But during these times when homosexuality was also very prevalent and recorded, there are plenty of examples of incest as well. Mostly during the Roman times and I know Cleopatra married her half brother. I think even Edgar Allan Poe married his cousin... In greek mythology, incest plays a major part in plenty of greek myths so it's obviously something people thought about even back then. In greek myths, incest is never treated as wrong or distasteful from what I can remember aside from the story of Oedipus. Even in the bible, whether people believe it's true, incest pops up plenty of times. Actually in the bible, there are plenty more mentions of incest and actual incestuous relations than homosexual anything. And this is AFTER it's declared as not ok in the bible. I think the only reason consensual incest relations are rare is because there is a very small pool to pick from. Where as anyone else has everyone else in the world who is not related to them to pick from.
There isn't really a small pool to pick from. Every person with a blood relative (everyone on Earth) has an opportunity for incest, yet it is exceptionally rare to find instances of it. Most instances are men raping young girls or boys, and very few are consensual incestuous adult relationships.

Also... homosexuality occurs naturally across various species... actually it doesn't because nothing aside from humans living today belong to the genus "homo"... But yeah same sex relations, I get what you mean :p Animals do all sorts of weird things so I hardly see them as a way to validate what is natural or supposed to be.
So do humans; fashion (wearing fabric or animal skin clothes to attract mates or look pretty/handsome), war (killing our own kind in vast numbers), shaving (removing what little warmth keeping hair we have, usually for sexual attraction purposes), subjugation of other races, drug use, destruction of our natural habitats, resource depletion, religion, suicide, thrill seeking, and of course the wierdest of them all; money and money systems.

And I've seen way more frequent incestuous relations in animals than I have seen examples of same sex relations in animals. I've had cats, dogs, rabbits etc etc etc and just about everything will interbreed with it's parents, siblings etc... and what's a dog that likes to hump a pillow? If we're looking to the animals for what is natural, I think incest would be the first thing people would notice. That and that most animals have frequent multiple partners.
Even in animals, you see procreational problems from incestuous relationships. If a dog impregnates his sister, in his mind, it is spreading the seed wherever he can. I imagine, before the evolution of the large neocortex, humans were probably similar; then we realized, having children with deformities is burdensome and it became socially unacceptable, a sign of inferiority even; to have a disabled child. Harsh, but not untrue. Nowadays, we avoid incestuous relationships primarily because society deems them uncooth, taboo, and children born of them are deformed.

I'm sure if a dog had the mental capacity to think that far ahead, he probably wouldn't go round rutting his sister either.

I don't agree with either but like I said, it's other peoples business and I really don't see how it's right to approve of one and deny the other.
The only reason homosexuality is denied, aside from biblical law, is disgust. It's the same reason incest is denied, culturally. Right now, homosexuality has become something that illicits a disgust response in less people, and it is bcoming more acceptable. One of the reasons for that is that consensual homosexual adult relationships harm nobody. Incestuous ones cross child-parent borders, cross lines of familiar responsibility,l go against the heterosexual biological urge to further the gene pool, and for various reasons, are socially unaccepted -- primarily disgust. However, in reality, as you say, there is no reason that an adult incestuous relationship that does not carry risk of procreation and which has never been abusive nor has started with the rape of a child, is morally wrong other than the societial regulations against it and the words within some religions. Really, there is no genuine, substantial, non-religious reason to assume that such a relationship carries any risk to individuals or society, providing it fulfils the criteria aforementioned.

Still, even if it wasn't considered rotten and disgusting and ungodly, most people won't do it because they simply have no desire to rut with their siblings. They'd rather find someone outside the immediate family.

The only argument that holds any water is the damage to offsprings but like I said, there is so much out there to prevent that, not to mention just get an abortion... which I'm not okay with but I'm betting the people engaged in such a relationship wouldn't have a problem with it.
If a person is having to kill likely disabled babies because she's rutting her brother all the time, that's probably a sign the relationship is no good.
 
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There isn't really a small pool to pick from. Every person with a blood relative (everyone on Earth) has an opportunity for incest, yet it is exceptionally rare to find instances of it. Most instances are men raping young girls or boys, and very few are consensual incestuous adult relationships.
I think it's more rare cause of how culture portrays it. If you're taught one way you're whole life, it's easy to be grossed out or sickened by something. If incest became socially acceptable, I bet it would happen a lot more often. People would not grow up with the predisposed disposition that it is gross or wrong and thus wouldn't care as much if it was incestuous or not. Like I said in ancient times, it seemed pretty ok... maybe still frowned upon but not like today.

So do humans; fashion (wearing fabric or animal skin clothes to attract mates or look pretty/handsome), war (killing our own kind in vast numbers), shaving (removing what little warmth keeping hair we have, usually for sexual attraction purposes), subjugation of other races, drug use, destruction of our natural habitats, resource depletion, religion, suicide, thrill seeking, and of course the wierdest of them all; money and money systems.
My point was you can't point to animals for validity of what is natural or unnatural, including same sex behavior... People always says homosexuality happens in nature everywhere so there for it's natural. Well so is incest.

Even in animals, you see procreational problems from incestuous relationships. If a dog impregnates his sister, in his mind, it is spreading the seed wherever he can. I imagine, before the evolution of the large neocortex, humans were probably similar; then we realized, having children with deformities is burdensome and it became socially unacceptable, a sign of inferiority even; to have a disabled child. Harsh, but not untrue. Nowadays, we avoid incestuous relationships primarily because society deems them uncooth, taboo, and children born of them are deformed.
It must happen a lot less frequently with animals because I've had cats and rabbits growing up... Once in a blue moon did you get one that was deformed (usually dead or died soon after birth)... there was plenty of inbreeding going around. Even cats humping rabbits but those didn't produce any offspring.

The only reason homosexuality is denied, aside from biblical law, is disgust. It's the same reason incest is denied, culturally.
I agree.

Still, even if it wasn't considered rotten and disgusting and ungodly, most people won't do it because they simply have no desire to rut with their siblings. They'd rather find someone outside the immediate family.
And I would have thought most people wouldn't have any desire to sleep with the same sex... I think if seen as ok, people won't care. Maybe not so much parent-child incest but siblings and cousins... Especially if they didn't live together much growing up. People are always looking and exploring sexual experiences and don't see an incestuous one being much different.

If a person is having to kill likely disabled babies because she's rutting her brother all the time, that's probably a sign the relationship is no good.
I agree... but people do many stupid things regardless of consequence.