The Good The Bad The Best The Worse of Being a Single!

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Aug 27, 2005
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hahaha awww! well practice hard!! lol

orr maybe people will give u props for trying and u'll get all the ladays
 
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andrew22

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#43
maybe some sympathy for how bad i am, and jeena thats not stalking its only stalking if you say its stalking :p
 

Godsrocker

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Good: Get to do whatever i want and hang out with my friends and the peace and quiet
Bad: seeing all ur friends in love and getting married or married and having childern and ur alone all the time
 
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lil-rush

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#46
bad: It's kind of hard to reproduce when single. If I were rich I'd just adopt.

good: don't have to try and socialize
can read books, write, get online whenever I want
no drama
can focus on school
don't have to worry about scheduling dates
don't have to worry about a boy's feelings
time to focus on God
Much easier to frown upon dating when I'm not partaking in it
don't have to worry about finding a guy who would be fine with my growing love for messianic beliefs
get to stay home all day instead of trying to find ways to entertain someone
uhm... I'll stop now.
 

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roaringkitten

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Good: Able to focus on serving God
Bad: My greatest friend is Jesus, and if God doesn't have marriage in His plans for me, He knows what's best....He knows my needs before I do.....THERE IS NOTHING BAD!!!!!=)
 
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Good: To have someone you can tell everything to and know they wont tell anyone! Knowing that ure going to be with them untill the end of the ages!
Bad: well depends how you look at it? Being Single now is so great i get to build my relationship with Jesus! but eventually sharing my relationship with Jesus with my husband too will be awesome! those discussions of How amazing Jesus is!
 
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Topher

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Good:
- You have loads more money.
- You can lick your spoons clean.
- You can spend the whole day sleeping.
- Don't have to worry about forgetting her birthday.
- You can be places on time.
- You have a way better attention span.
- Can go on trips when and where you want.
- You can see your relatives every holiday.
- Can hit on or flirt with whomever you please.
- Don't have to clean your bathroom.
- No arduous deliberations on how to break off a relationship.
- Don't have to shave as often.
- You're good enough for everyone, and everyone's good enough for you.
- You can go out dressed however you want.
- Way easier to be sexually pure.


Bad:
- You're single.
- It's a lot harder to have kids.
- No one to share sights and experiences with.
- No soup or 7-up when you're sick.
- Difficult to find people to hold hands with.
- No one for you to miss, or to miss you.
- Walks are less interesting.
 
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iraasuup

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#50
Can I reply to this post if I'm married but feel like I'm single?
 
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#51
lol! sure iraa! u were single at some point in ur life...
 
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WhereToGo

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#52
The bad? hmm.. I'll figure something out... :p

The good? Like mel gibson said... FREEEEEEDOOOMMM!!!!

:)
 
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moonlight1

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#53
The bad? hmm.. I'll figure something out... :p

The good? Like mel gibson said... FREEEEEEDOOOMMM!!!!

:)
Hey there !!

Thankyou for your reply to my thread and i must say I was really glad to see a reply to a thread that wasnt lecturing me !!!Ive had a bucketful of them , telling me all the bad things about being single d'oh !!

You and me must be the only two pple who cannot find anything bad about being single....maybe its because we live for the day ...God bless you

Regards

Moonlight
 
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phaegmoristic

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#54
Good: I can concentrate on my studies at school because I know that is important right now.
Bad: It gets sad sometimes because I feel like God doesn't want me to have someone and I love God and I try to be optimistic but it's hard sometimes. It just gets lonely everyone should have someone to love.
 
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phaegmoristic

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Good:
- You have loads more money.
- You can lick your spoons clean.
- You can spend the whole day sleeping.
- Don't have to worry about forgetting her birthday.
- You can be places on time.
- You have a way better attention span.
- Can go on trips when and where you want.
- You can see your relatives every holiday.
- Can hit on or flirt with whomever you please.
- Don't have to clean your bathroom.
- No arduous deliberations on how to break off a relationship.
- Don't have to shave as often.
- You're good enough for everyone, and everyone's good enough for you.
- You can go out dressed however you want.
- Way easier to be sexually pure.


Bad:
- You're single.
- It's a lot harder to have kids.
- No one to share sights and experiences with.
- No soup or 7-up when you're sick.
- Difficult to find people to hold hands with.
- No one for you to miss, or to miss you.
- Walks are less interesting.
yes I agree with topher above with alot.
Good: you have more money in your pocket but kinda bad because it's nice to buy things for people you love too.
I'm not sure if I would lick his spoon clean tho! lol
As for forgetting a birthday I remind everyone so I would hope that wouldn't happen!
and I'm pretty good with numbers so I would hope I would remember his.
Going places alone is kinda sad because it is always nice to share with someone even if it is your friends.
I feel guilty for flirting with someone if it is a recent breakup but if it has been awhile and I'm getting over them not as bad.
That is true way easier to be sexually pure.
Its not fun being sick but if you both are sick together then that makes it better I suppose!
Missing someone is always hard there is no good in that I think but maybe there is.
I need to walk anyways alone or with someone but it would be alot funner with someone I cared about.
 
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griz

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#56
You know, the worst thing about being single...

is knowing you're supposed to be married, the question is when?



ARRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH, lol

The good thing about being single doing whatever you wan't when you wan't

The bad thing about being single is freakin out that you may just stay single for the rest of your life

The best thing about being single is you can fart anytime anyplace LOL seriously, the best thing about being single, is that is an awesome time in your life to enjoy the blessings and shapings that God can only do when your single. So enjoy being single!
 
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Knightjester

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#57
The good thing is, I can play my guitar as loud as I can,
let the dirty dishes piled up on the kitchen countertops for days,
dirty laundries all over the rooms, and thing that goes with a single kinda stuff.
I know the rooms look like as if just got hit by a tornado, but it's mine and mine alone.

The bad thing is, I got to clean them all myself. :p
 
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Abing

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#58
the good thing is.... everythng!!! lol.. freeedom.. i guess and no worries lol hakunah matata

the bad thing is... for me.. ____________.. nothng =P
 
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moonlight1

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#59
YAY....I totally agree !!! Good for you Abing

Regards

Moonlught
 
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roaringkitten

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#60
Good answer Abby! Tis the correct one!!!

The good is that I get my sunflower patch all to myself!!!!hehe