The Good The Bad The Best The Worse of Being a Single!

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Kenoragirl

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#61
The good... I have room to be me without trying to impress anyone.
The bad.... I don't have anyone to motivate me to be better... no one to impress! lol
 
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Liz_loves_Jesus

Guest
#62
Good: I don't feel so attached, I can do more stuff freely
Bad: Valentines day is overrated when you're single
 
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#63
Truthfully, I think Valentine's and Sweetest Day are overrated anywayz.. send flowers or cards to ur love sporadically...you don't need those days to remind you. (my opinion anywayz...)
 
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Arcticstorm

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#65
Good: No one to nag you to do stuff, to tell you to stop playing videogames, stay out as late as you want, do what you want.

Bad: no one to help pay for the pizza!
 
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iraasuup

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#66
Finally, someone agrees with me about Valentines day!! I've always said it was corny. I think you should show love to your other half all of the time or randomly... not just on one set given day of the year, just because the calendar tells you too! Aarrgghhh... marketing ploy!! I've always hated it.. and have many people disagree with me, so thankyou.. glad I'm not alone with this thought!!
 
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cindy2009

Guest
#68
Yes the good is having ALL the bed alone,
the bad is the fear that am really getting old, and will soon be too old to get married, scares. Having to get news of all your friends are getting hitched.

But i believe God has a plan for everymankind. Am proud for choosing to be a christian
 
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Anntea

Guest
#69
Good : i can make own decision without thinking will b affect my mate, many guys chase after me and give me many cares :)
Bad..: no one to share, no one to say its ok when in prob, no one to laugh togather , just b alone its not fun..... I need my man :)
i love to love and be loved.... cant wait find my love again
 
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Kenoragirl

Guest
#70
Hey all you single girls! Me and a friend found a great way to celebrate "Singles Awareness Day" this year (aka Valentine's Day). We're going to for a pedicure & then heading to her house to watch a movie and eat chocolate! Isn't that the best ever?! No date to impress, I'm so excited about it! If you're feeling down on that particular day, go and do something you enjoy.... you'll feel better ;) Besides, Valentine's Day is waaaaay overrated.
 
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moonlight1

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#71
Hey,
Thanks for sending your post ....Your way to spend valentines day sounds great fun ....if we didnt have 3000 miles of sea id be over !!LOL
 
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Baptistrw

Guest
#72
Good=Get to bed earlier and have more money
Bad=When you need a partner for something
 
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Arcticstorm

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#73
being sigle is you don't have to cut up and cancel your credit cards!!
 
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Sparrow

Guest
#74
Going to the restaurant alone.
 

Pheonix

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The way I see things is this. Enjoy being single while you are, because at some point you will be in relationship and all the while some part of you will be wishing you were single again.

So enjoy the dark side while you're there!
 
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iraasuup

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#76
HAHAHA pheonix... SOOOO TRUE! I'm married.. and wishing I was single again!

Woohoo!! btw I'm a senior member now... YAY!
 
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Cobblepot

Guest
#77
Perhaps the best thing about being single is that you don't have to deal with someone dragging you to the theater to see movies that you honestly have no interest in whatsoever. Romantic comedies are a cornucopia of badness.
 
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IChThUS

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#78
At 64, I have lived my life in the way I believed God go be leading me and could not have done so if I had been married.


Having been single for the whole time I cannot find any particular point that I could specifically list here.
  • GOOD: Everything with one exception.
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  • BAD: Not having Grandchilden.
 
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Narn

Guest
#79
Good: I can go weeks without a paycheck and be almost broke and still be fine
Bad: I'm almost broke
 
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twistedlinen

Guest
#80
Good: Can do everything you want
Bad: Not having someone you can hold a hand with.. :D