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I’ve been reading this forum for over a year now. There have been nuuuuuuuuuuuumerous vague theoretical articles posted on how guys can show a lady they are interested and vice-versa. Why don’t we get down to the nitty gritty and just give some examples of what has “worked”?
Have you seen the movie “We Brought a Zoo”? In the movie the father tells his son that if you like a girl, you really only need about 20 seconds of courage. TELL HER.
There are a lot of seemingly average guys (who are FAR from average) out there who end up with what some would consider to be amazing women, and people often look at them as a couple and wonder how that happened. (You know you’ve thought it. J) Bottom line: It happened because he stepped up when other guys were too afraid to do it.
There is a guy I know who is an “average looking guy” to most people. The type you would probably pass right by without noticing him. Until he smiles. He has an amazing smile that makes his eyes twinkle. And he made sure I noticed and that I would never forget him, and this is how:
I was talking with a small group of people. I had briefly met him a few days before. He walked up behind me, tapped me on the shoulder, looked at the other people I was talking with and said, “Excuse us”, as if he’d known me all my life. I was very confused. J He took my hand and walked me out to the dance floor and said, “I’m sorry. I don’t want to share you.” And then he showed me the smile and those gorgeous eyes. No white steed. No shining armor. No sword. No dragons slain. Just 20 seconds of incredible courage.
You don’t dance? Fine…. Take her arm and go get a cup of coffee, ice cream, a piece of cake, bring her a SINGLE flower (never a bunch).
Might she reject you? Might she be rude? It could happen. Guess what? If she does, who is the jerk? It’s NOT you. Plus, you’ve just saved yourself a lot of wasted time and energy fretting over an unclassy gal who isn’t worth a minute of your thought life.
So….
LADIES: Can you give some examples of what has “worked” for you?
GUYS: Can you give some examples of ways a lady has let you know she was interested in you?
Have you seen the movie “We Brought a Zoo”? In the movie the father tells his son that if you like a girl, you really only need about 20 seconds of courage. TELL HER.
There are a lot of seemingly average guys (who are FAR from average) out there who end up with what some would consider to be amazing women, and people often look at them as a couple and wonder how that happened. (You know you’ve thought it. J) Bottom line: It happened because he stepped up when other guys were too afraid to do it.
There is a guy I know who is an “average looking guy” to most people. The type you would probably pass right by without noticing him. Until he smiles. He has an amazing smile that makes his eyes twinkle. And he made sure I noticed and that I would never forget him, and this is how:
I was talking with a small group of people. I had briefly met him a few days before. He walked up behind me, tapped me on the shoulder, looked at the other people I was talking with and said, “Excuse us”, as if he’d known me all my life. I was very confused. J He took my hand and walked me out to the dance floor and said, “I’m sorry. I don’t want to share you.” And then he showed me the smile and those gorgeous eyes. No white steed. No shining armor. No sword. No dragons slain. Just 20 seconds of incredible courage.
You don’t dance? Fine…. Take her arm and go get a cup of coffee, ice cream, a piece of cake, bring her a SINGLE flower (never a bunch).
Might she reject you? Might she be rude? It could happen. Guess what? If she does, who is the jerk? It’s NOT you. Plus, you’ve just saved yourself a lot of wasted time and energy fretting over an unclassy gal who isn’t worth a minute of your thought life.
So….
LADIES: Can you give some examples of what has “worked” for you?
GUYS: Can you give some examples of ways a lady has let you know she was interested in you?