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A guy asked for my number and nearly 2 months have past and he hasn't called me. He's seen me at church so he has had the opportunity to touch base with me. So based off that experience, I'm more level headed that I give myself credit for. I simply brushed it off as 'he just wasn't interested.' If he expected to bait me by asking and hooking by ignoring me- he's going to be disappointed when he finds out that I've already made my decision about him. I'm not angry or spiteful, I just don't have the impression that he's interested in continuing his pursuit.
He'll have to make a different attempt with more enthusiasm if he wants a second chance. I'm not trying to be little miss snooty-pants, but I know for a fact that when you ask someone that you're really... I guess infatuated with on a date or what-not, you are giddy and impatient to see it through- even if you are nervous and make a fool of yourself. I know because the first guy I ever liked, I called him to meet up on a friendly basis. I was literally dancing in the streets even though it wasn't close to a date. I didn't think it was, and I suspect he didn't either- because he was dating someone else soon after. </3
I suspect that a date would be different though. I see a date as a meet-up between two people who both are interested in seeing if they might start a romantic relationship between one another. Intentions are known but it is also known that there is no commitment yet. I might behave as I did with the guy who didn't call me, but I have a feeling that for better or for worse, I would be immensely curious as to how it went. Dropping off the face of the earth seems rude to me... especially seeing as I've been led on before. The sooner I know it's not going to happen- the sooner I can move on.
He'll have to make a different attempt with more enthusiasm if he wants a second chance. I'm not trying to be little miss snooty-pants, but I know for a fact that when you ask someone that you're really... I guess infatuated with on a date or what-not, you are giddy and impatient to see it through- even if you are nervous and make a fool of yourself. I know because the first guy I ever liked, I called him to meet up on a friendly basis. I was literally dancing in the streets even though it wasn't close to a date. I didn't think it was, and I suspect he didn't either- because he was dating someone else soon after. </3
I suspect that a date would be different though. I see a date as a meet-up between two people who both are interested in seeing if they might start a romantic relationship between one another. Intentions are known but it is also known that there is no commitment yet. I might behave as I did with the guy who didn't call me, but I have a feeling that for better or for worse, I would be immensely curious as to how it went. Dropping off the face of the earth seems rude to me... especially seeing as I've been led on before. The sooner I know it's not going to happen- the sooner I can move on.
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Keep God in your heart, His peace passes all understanding, smudgless.
Someday, God is going to keep on providing, buying you 'mockingbirds.' And, yes, those birds will sing.
And, when God gets ready, He will allow some guy to buy you a wedding........
Ring in your days daily with His words and His ways for your life asked for, in prayer, in action--FAITH!--and, you will do just fine, little fox.
The Lord leads, milady.
Someday, God is going to keep on providing, buying you 'mockingbirds.' And, yes, those birds will sing.
And, when God gets ready, He will allow some guy to buy you a wedding........
Ring in your days daily with His words and His ways for your life asked for, in prayer, in action--FAITH!--and, you will do just fine, little fox.
The Lord leads, milady.
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everyone but ugly please read this next part. But, Ugly, buddy, bro-uther, the last line is ONLY for YOU to read. OK? No one else read it, please don't, that would be going over the borderline, people. Thank you.
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HEY, mizcris, I recommend toilet paper over marshmallows , and, pick a night that's dry but the forecast is for RAIN. Ever tried to pick up wet TP ?
Oh, WAIT! You need ugly's address to 'dress' his house up with YOUR 'love.' And, good news ! Pretty sure, I can get his addy.
Me 'n ugly are real tight, like ZZtop and the sharp-dressed men
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Hey, ugly, thx for not reading in between the lines, and, so, yeah, bro, how ya doin' ? hey, any chance I can get your address right now ? I want to send you a DVD promo of this cool song I wrote that's a cross of melody between madonna, T-Bone Burnett and zztop?
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HEY, mizcris, I recommend toilet paper over marshmallows , and, pick a night that's dry but the forecast is for RAIN. Ever tried to pick up wet TP ?
Oh, WAIT! You need ugly's address to 'dress' his house up with YOUR 'love.' And, good news ! Pretty sure, I can get his addy.
Me 'n ugly are real tight, like ZZtop and the sharp-dressed men
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Hey, ugly, thx for not reading in between the lines, and, so, yeah, bro, how ya doin' ? hey, any chance I can get your address right now ? I want to send you a DVD promo of this cool song I wrote that's a cross of melody between madonna, T-Bone Burnett and zztop?