My usual catch 22...
People- so do you like Grace?
Me- Nope, I don't really know Grace.
People- Well, she's a nice girl, you should get to know her.
Me- so I should... take her out on a date?
People- YEAH!!!
Me- I don't think so, I don't know her that well.
Exploration Dating is very awkward. Cause when I don't ask a girl out again, then they get all mad at me. "You were the one who asked me out and wanted to go out with ME, and now you don't anymore? Geez, you're a weirdo." Thats what I assume they are thinking.
This got me thinking and I'd like to ask - if you are a girl, how would you feel if a guy did ask you out like that and then didn't ask you out again? Aka you didn't know him super well?
If you wouldn't feel happy about it, how do you go about getting to know guys? Hanging out with them etc? Do you tend to make yourself available to chat to etc? Or be more closed off?