first kiss

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simplysweet

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'Saving the first kiss until marriage' whadayahsay singles?
 

JimJimmers

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I say whatever is not of faith is sin. I think kissing before marriage is fine. But if you believe it to be wrong, you better not do it.
 
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Tintin

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I'm saving my first kiss, but not for marriage.
 

Lynx

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I haven't even met her yet, so... yeah, what Tintin said.

But to the intent of the OP, the Bible is silent about kissing before marriage. It does have something to say about... other things... before marriage though. If you think kissing will lead to... other things... then you probably shouldn't. But if a person has that little self control, or if he believes his lady love has that little self control, they might want to rethink this whole relationship anyway.
 

Lynx

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A young mouse was taking his girlfriend out on their third date. His father said to him, "Son, this date will determine if you are a man or a mouse. If you are a man you will kiss her tonight. If you are a mouse you won't have the nerve to."

His son said, "Gee, I guess I must be a rat then. I kissed her on the last date."
 

JesusLives

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Oct 11, 2013
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I haven't even met her yet, so... yeah, what Tintin said.

But to the intent of the OP, the Bible is silent about kissing before marriage. It does have something to say about... other things... before marriage though. If you think kissing will lead to... other things... then you probably shouldn't. But if a person has that little self control, or if he believes his lady love has that little self control, they might want to rethink this whole relationship anyway.

You are correct someone has to show restraint.
 

JesusLives

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Now my answer to this question....I say kiss away as I can show restraint.
 

JesusLives

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A young mouse was taking his girlfriend out on their third date. His father said to him, "Son, this date will determine if you are a man or a mouse. If you are a man you will kiss her tonight. If you are a mouse you won't have the nerve to."

His son said, "Gee, I guess I must be a rat then. I kissed her on the last date."
And for Lynx with all the mice dinner is served......lol
 

cinder

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Mar 26, 2014
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I say just make sure your first kiss is a first kiss worth waiting for.
 
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I often feel like I squandered my first kiss on someone I didn't really care for... but kissing is fun so no regrets here! ;)

Obviously, I'm pro kissing before marriage. I definitely suggest practice before you do it in front of all your friends and family! Haha its not a natural talent, but a developed skill (for many at least).

Don't believe me? Youtube: virgins first kiss. Oh here, I'll do it for you...

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Xp-jZyzQSms

Bahaha it's so awkward!
 
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My first kiss was with this girl from hig school. We were drunk. It was... bad? :eek:
 
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Shouryu

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*coughs*

Um...game of Truth or Dare in the back of the band bus, sophomore year in high schooooool...

*slinks away*
 

lil_christian

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I've never kissed anyone and don't plan on it, so no danger there.
 
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TheBlackRider

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'Saving the first kiss until marriage' whadayahsay singles?
Well....i was honestly considering it...but after watching fallingdeep's delightful video...I'm having second thoughts. I'm pretty sure I have restraint, and the guy I'm marrying better have pretty good restraint...at least til we get married. :/
So I guess it's what everyone has pretty much said already....going with my God-given conscience and some common sense.

I don't think I'd mind saving MY first kiss for marriage....i don't think I'd mind it if the guy knew how to kiss though.....so practice, dudes. (jk...don't practice just for the sake of it, please. XDDDDDDD) hahahah