'A kiss is just a kiss?'

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AsifinPassing

AsifinPassing

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Hello again!

I've been putting some thought, reflection, and research into the next thread I would post.

Well, here goes...

On looking back over my past relationships, I've been, shall we say, 'concerned' or intrigued on certain points. One of these has been kissing.

Many people, especially women, talk about how sensual kissing is, the 'fireworks' one gets from it, and the growing urge/desire for more kisses.

Now, that said, looking back...I never had anything like this experience. Sure, I've kissed some of my past girlfriends, but for me, it was never more than our lips touching.

They said I kissed well enough, and seemed to enjoy it. The thing is, it was just a different form of touch for me, as if my hand touched her shoulder, ext.

I've found that I'm not alone in this, but still...

For future reference, have I done something wrong? Many suggest that you weren't 'into them' or 'didn't truly love her', but I've loved every one. I don't hold back in romantic relationships.

It's just interested me. What do you think?
 
Ritter

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I can't help you here. I've only been kissed once. It was electric.
 
AsifinPassing

AsifinPassing

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Well, at least you responded. Good on ya, Ritter!
 
Ritter

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Hahaha no problem man! Hopefully someone else will have the right cajones to get this one rolling.
 
AsifinPassing

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It's all good! I've come to the realization that I have a strange ability to make people leave, not reply, or even kill a thread on occasion. Lol

Nonetheless, there are some who seem immune to its effects, so hope endures!

Nice flag of Gibraltar btw. It honestly stumped me for a bit, but I got it figured out!

How are things in the EU?
 
Ritter

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Haha, I'm from the US of A, but I chose Gibralter as my profile flag because it rocks.

I always choose a foreign flag for fun. For the longest time it was Iran.
 
Nautilus

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Ive kissed my fair share of girls in my days. Some were girlfriends, some friends, some were girls at parties...but really a kiss is just a kiss at least for me. Sure I might feel something more if there is something more with the person im kissing but its more about the person than the act.
 
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Jullianna

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A kiss isn't just a kiss to me. It means something.

There are different types of kisses though. Not all are intended to be sensual in nature in a comfortable affectionate relationship. The "Hey! Our team just won! grab your sweetie and hug/kiss them" kiss is different from the "this is the best date I've ever had so glad I met you kiss" or the "Yes! I will marry you!" kiss or an intimate sensual kiss.
 
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I'm 61 so i have been places you two haven't seen................the art of kissing well is paramount in any male/female relationship. Find a female friend and practice.
 
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niceguyJ

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For me a kiss is not just a kiss. It would mean way more than what it does to most.
I don't have intentions of kissing a girl unless I plan on marrying her...Even then there would need to be some limits so it doesn't go too far.

I can't say if YOU are wrong or not for kissing anyone. That's between God, you, and the girl. Ultimately, God himself should be your guide on this one.
 
Oncefallen

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Asifin, not everyone is wired the same when it comes to sensuality, so I wouldn't worry too much about it. As Jullianna said there are different types of kiss, and shall we say different styles which are more prone to build the passion levels.

mrwma said:
I'm 61 so i have been places you two haven't seen................the art of kissing well is paramount in any male/female relationship. Find a female friend and practice.
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Ummmmm. You have got to be kidding. :eek::eek:
 
lil_christian

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Ritter said:
Haha, I'm from the US of A, but I chose Gibralter as my profile flag because it rocks.

I always choose a foreign flag for fun. For the longest time it was Iran.
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didn't you have Great Britain at one point? lol just wondering :D
 
lil_christian

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Oncefallen said:
Ummmmm. You have got to be kidding. :eek::eek:
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I hope he is :eek:

But honestly I've never been kissed before, I've never even have had a boyfriend or even an almost-boyfriend...sooo I'll leave this all to the experts. :p
 
Oncefallen

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lil_christian said:
I hope he is :eek:

But honestly I've never been kissed before, I've never even have had a boyfriend or even an almost-boyfriend...sooo I'll leave this all to the experts. :p
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Good, keep it that way 'til you're 30. :D
 
Ritter

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Then there is the kiss goodbye for half a year/first kiss. Yes, my life is complicated.
 
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Jullianna

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NO! We're not kidding, Lil. I have cuffs and Oncefallen has duct tape. We are prepared to lock you away for the next 15 years if we need to. :)
 
lil_christian

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Jullianna said:
NO! We're not kidding, Lil. I have cuffs and Oncefallen has duct tape. We are prepared to lock you away for the next 15 years if we need to. :)
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:eek: Someone save me! :eek:

(I hope this thread hasn't been officially derailed XD)
 
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