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Tommy379

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When I scrolled by this, I read it as “you should be shaving your sea legs by now”, and it just brought up so many questions...none of which matter because that’s Not what it says.
Imagine me saying it like Quint in Jaws. It would have sounded like what you first thought.
 

Waggles

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Hello everyone!!! I have a quick question. When I talk to guys I get this really really bad feeling. I have spiritual discernement so I’m thinking it has something to do with that but I’m not sure. It’s so weird. Does anyone know about spiritual discernment? It’s like a really bad feeling and then my heart starts racing bad. The feeling I get makes me lose my peace fro. god.
Thanks
What has spiritual discernment to do with dealing with romance?
Or talking with guys?

Spiritual discernment or rather more correctly discerning of spirits
is one of the gifts given to the Spirit-filled church and is to do with
sound doctrine and false teaching.

When it comes to other people in the flesh one may or may not
have worldly wisdom. Life experience.

Talking to guys gives you a bad feeling. Do you have a problem with guys?
Have you been harmed?
Never been out with guys? Why your feelings?
A bad feeling is emotion.
Spiritual discerning is to do with knowledge and being grounded and
rooted in the Word of God.
 

cinder

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Hello everyone!!! I have a quick question. When I talk to guys I get this really really bad feeling. I have spiritual discernement so I’m thinking it has something to do with that but I’m not sure. It’s so weird. Does anyone know about spiritual discernment? It’s like a really bad feeling and then my heart starts racing bad. The feeling I get makes me lose my peace fro. god.


Thanks

Might depend a little bit on what guys you're talking to and the circumstances, but mostly this doesn't sound like it has anything to do with spiritual discernment and everything to do with being nervous or uncomfortable talking to guys. Since you later said something about guys when you think about a relationship with them, it could just be your imagination running away with you a bit and you being nervous about being in a relationship with a guy you don't yet know very well. You don't define bad feeling very clearly, but if it's just that combination of nervous excited and slightly terrified that most of us get when we want to approach someone we're interested in or find attractive. That's just being a normal human.
 
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I think it's possible. You should go with your gut feeling. Later if possible you should ask yourself was I right about that person.
 
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Just a suggestion.
It may be happening because either the person is not for you, your not suppose to be with anyone right now or ever Or there is something in your life that is undealt with that is causing you to fear....