So, a sister on here suggested I start this thread.
Here is the situation. God is everything- now that doesn't mean I don't have room to love someone else (indeed I desire that) but I don't know what I'm supposed to do. Do I approach someone I find attractive? and when I do of course my first REAL question is Christ. Which of course dives into a much more serious conversation. So what ends of happening is my personal desire of a family gets set "WAY" aside because the most important subject IS God and our growth in Him.
Then even if they are "christian" I don't think we are on the same page as to the importance of His role in all that we are and do, because from the beginning of the "Godly conversation" anything that may have seemed like courtship goes out the window as they feel they are being preached to.
I have spoken to one Godly woman who was interested in more, but she wasn't interested in the biblical role of husband wife. She felt God gave her authority over all people (even her husband) so that filtered through the drain hole as well.
On that note I am no longer actively seeking. I've settled into a state of only doing Gods work. Now I fully believe that in these times that may be all God intends for me and I'm okay with that. However I read a statement where a real lady won't chase a man, which means she needs to be approached and many women may feel like that- then the question goes full circle- am I supposed to approach a woman and how? lol
Here is the situation. God is everything- now that doesn't mean I don't have room to love someone else (indeed I desire that) but I don't know what I'm supposed to do. Do I approach someone I find attractive? and when I do of course my first REAL question is Christ. Which of course dives into a much more serious conversation. So what ends of happening is my personal desire of a family gets set "WAY" aside because the most important subject IS God and our growth in Him.
Then even if they are "christian" I don't think we are on the same page as to the importance of His role in all that we are and do, because from the beginning of the "Godly conversation" anything that may have seemed like courtship goes out the window as they feel they are being preached to.
I have spoken to one Godly woman who was interested in more, but she wasn't interested in the biblical role of husband wife. She felt God gave her authority over all people (even her husband) so that filtered through the drain hole as well.
On that note I am no longer actively seeking. I've settled into a state of only doing Gods work. Now I fully believe that in these times that may be all God intends for me and I'm okay with that. However I read a statement where a real lady won't chase a man, which means she needs to be approached and many women may feel like that- then the question goes full circle- am I supposed to approach a woman and how? lol