Answer to my Prayers: Arise another problem

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ServantHood

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Thank you guys for all those who prayed for me, who knew my situation of dealing with this relationship with this girl. I love her, and I've been praying for her constantly, and I felt like God brought her back to me. And now we're getting along again. But as soon as this happen, another situation arose. If you knew my problem, the girl had issues with guys who would take her away from God. And I would fight, fight, fight for her to come back, to believe what I have to say to her. Now, she found another "friend" who I known, and this guy has no respect for who God is. He say he is a christian, but is the total opposite of what God says he ought to be. He doesn't believe in the Bible, and he likes to get down into girls pants. He's done it before, and I'm sure I know his purpose.

After winning the first battle, I feel like the devil threw another "friend" into her life, that she is again, going backwards and leaning to what this guy is saying over me. He is talking trash about me like the first "friend" she had before. And he is pulling her away from God, he is flirting with her in a way, trying to get down to her pants. He is countering everything I am saying to her, making me look much worst than the first "guy" she was with. And this is killing me on the inside, I feel like I'm fighting an endlessness battle between the devil and his demons, trying to take her soul the wrong path. So I please please, BEG YOU ALL TO PRAY FOR HER. I have been fighting, and praying for her for a year now, and MY SOUL IS TORN. MY HEART IS FAILING. I LOVE THIS GIRL WITH ALL MY HEART, and God has called her to be my wife, but she kept going the opposite direction to whatever wind blows her way. And I am begging for you guys to pray for her with all your heart, help me get to her heart and bring her back to God. Bring her back to what God has called her to do in her life, and I please BEG, I AM BEGGING. I am wanting to cry, I am hurt, I am frustrated, I feel torn, worn out. Fast and pray for her, beg God for me for her. Her name is ANGEL. God bless you all, PLEASE I BEG YOU.
 
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sunnygurl

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After reading your posts I wonder if this is a one way relationship where your heart is filled with a deep longing love for this girl who does not seem to see you in the same light. If you truly love her as you state you may have to let her go, if God has destined this young woman to be your wife then she will return to you and your heart. If you continue to pursue her it may come at a great cost of compromising your walk with the Lord.
Sometimes we can deceive ourselves into believing that the things that we want are the things God wants to give us when sometimes in reality it is a lie and distraction from the devil to keep us from the narrow path and take us down the wide path.
I feel for you as you are watching her life from the side-lines and causing yourself unnecessary grief and pain, young man you need to let her go and let God work her in heart. Keep praying God's will upon her life and walk and for Godly Christians to come and guide her on the right path and to protect her from those that long to steal or destroy.
 
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ServantHood

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sunnygurl said:
After reading your posts I wonder if this is a one way relationship where your heart is filled with a deep longing love for this girl who does not seem to see you in the same light. If you truly love her as you state you may have to let her go, if God has destined this young woman to be your wife then she will return to you and your heart. If you continue to pursue her it may come at a great cost of compromising your walk with the Lord.
Sometimes we can deceive ourselves into believing that the things that we want are the things God wants to give us when sometimes in reality it is a lie and distraction from the devil to keep us from the narrow path and take us down the wide path.
I feel for you as you are watching her life from the side-lines and causing yourself unnecessary grief and pain, young man you need to let her go and let God work her in heart. Keep praying God's will upon her life and walk and for Godly Christians to come and guide her on the right path and to protect her from those that long to steal or destroy.
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I love your answer, and I felt like it has a touch of the Holy Ghost in your words. I have letting go, but there was an issue where I pray that God would take it all from me, and in this instance, He said to me, "Don't give up." After a couple weeks, I prayed again, and He said to me, "It was over, she will like somebody else and he will not be good for her." I cried with a deep pain after hearing His words. Constantly fasting and praying, I heard again, from my heart, "Keep fighting for her." I would love to let go, but I feel within my heart, something is aching, and as if I can't give up on her. So please, if you can just pray for me and her. And allow God to touch us both in a way that never been touched before. If she doesn't see me in the same light, that is fine. But I am not willing to let her go down the path of hell. I have to fight for her, so please pray for my sister in Christ, if that is who she is.
 
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sunnygurl

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Will do brother, I will keep you both in my prayers and in the will of God.
Letting go is not giving up its placing the issue in the hands of God and trusting His will in the situation.
God's peace upon your heart Servanthood.
 
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Domino

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Dear ServantHood!
I have a feeling that a problem is inside of you. For somereason God gives you this situation. And this is not about this bad boys, thisis more about either 1. Test on your faith in God; 2. Test to love God morethan your girl; 3. Accept the "triangle" situation.
1. Do not be angry with this bad guy – he is ablessing! He is sent to you to test your faith. He will change later, sooner orlater he will come to God. And if not you can feel so sorry about him, becausehe will suffer terribly.
2. It looks like you got hooked by this girl. Try totalk to your soul like I do: just repeat 1,000,000 times that you love God morethan anybody else. Otherwise it isbreaking the first commandment, that this is very serious.
3. Triangle situation is most difficult. If youcould read Russian or German I would send you a link with ~5,000 other stories.Some last decades. Some ended with somebody’s death. I got through one bymyself. And even if you leave this girl: God will send you the same situationlater. However, everybody agrees with such kind of prayer: “God, thank you forthis situation. Even if I do notunderstand it, I know this is good for my soul. Please give me clear vision ofmy sins. and so on...”
Most people found the way out of it. And remember:you are never along: God is always with you!

God bless!
 
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keep_on_smiling

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Pray for her, but let God do the work.

If she is meant to be with you, she will be.

As much as you want to, YOU can't save her, only the Lord can and only in His timing will He do that.

Often times it gets hard when our desires are so strong and we love someone so deeply to clearly hear from the Lord. Take some time to pray for yourself and ask for direction.

Praying, God bless!
 
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ServantHood

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I greatly appreciate everyone response and their help for me. I am currently just serving God, and just leaving the rest behind. I still think of this girl from time to time, and pray for her. We still talk on the occasional basis, and I still desire so badly for her to receive the power of the Holy Ghost. To experience what I have experience with God. Your prayers is greatly needed and appreciated. I want her to be saved, that it aches my soul. Please continue to pray for my dear Angel. God bless you all.
 
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