Anyone from LA have these kind of experiences?

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OtherJonny

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Any women I meet are interested in the "badboy" guy or jerk that gets waisted or something similar for fun, treats them badly, but as long as they have a "Christian" title they're ok with them. I dated a non-Christian(wouldn't do that again..) and she treated me better than a Christian woman I dated who just used me to give her rides to places. Women around this area seem to be disgusted or weirded out by me, I don't know what it is, I don't say anything weird, rude, or offensive....I hate to think it's because of the way I look :/
 
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The best explanation ive heard is that christian guys are boring, I can see that at times from some of my friends who are admittedly boring. I mean there is a wide range of christian viewpoints on going out and doing things and I for one believe in moderation so going out for fun and having a couple drinks isnt something I feel bad about. NO one gets drunk and nothing stupid happens, but i am one of the guys in my friends group who always has something going on or people to go out with.
 
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OtherJonny

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I'm not a total stiff lol I actually have a lot of fun with the women I hang out with and they say they had a great time too....It's just the more than friends thing always gets shot down @_@
 
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OtherJonny said:
I'm not a total stiff lol I actually have a lot of fun with the women I hang out with and they say they had a great time too....It's just the more than friends thing always gets shot down @_@
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Oh ok, i went with what seems to be common aka 'boring christian guy' syndrome as i call it. Perhaps you are just too nice? Im not advocating being a jerk, but a little bit of indifference can go a long way. I think its a fine line to walk. Dont be a jerk and dont be too nice...
 
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kayem77

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I live in the LA area, but I've only been in one church so I can't really say what the ''trend'' is here lol. I haven't seen that happening often in the church I go too...well at least with the girls I hand out with, but I know what you're saying. I like having fun but I have my limits. I believe Christians shouldn't be wordly and should have a light shining through them...so that rules out a lot of things wordly people do. I'm blessed to be part of a church where a lot of Christians try to seek God in everything they do :) of course we have exceptions but that's how life is. I don't know what church you go to..but maybe you need to hang out with different people, but I don't want to judge your situation without knowing the details.
 
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OtherJonny

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kayem77 said:
I live in the LA area, but I've only been in one church so I can't really say what the ''trend'' is here lol. I haven't seen that happening often in the church I go too...well at least with the girls I hand out with, but I know what you're saying. I like having fun but I have my limits. I believe Christians shouldn't be wordly and should have a light shining through them...so that rules out a lot of things wordly people do. I'm blessed to be part of a church where a lot of Christians try to seek God in everything they do :) of course we have exceptions but that's how life is. I don't know what church you go to..but maybe you need to hang out with different people, but I don't want to judge your situation without knowing the details.
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it seems to just be me....I have like a disease or something that repels women xD
 
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