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Am I correct in thinking that if I love my God first, then myself, I will have less chance of this happening? Maybe a new thread? If it does happen anyway, I will be more ready and able to accept it?
Relationships don't just happen though. We have to work at them. We don't just sit back on our rumps and not serve Christ, learn of Him and seek to please Him. Or at least I hope we don't if we are to grow in Him. I know that Christ certainly challenges me. Doesn't He you?
If the marital relationship is a reflection of our relationship of Christ, seems to me these things would certainly play a similar role.