Becoming the fixer-upper nightmare of a man she always dreamed of waking up next to?

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1still_waters

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Every woman has a dream. Then she wakes up to the nightmare of a man she longed for all her life. At least that's what women try their hardest not to tell us they truly want.

Face it guys, that is what some of us truly believe about some women. We hear them saying they want the man who is diving deep in the heart of God, that man who can feed every hungry child by simply smiling and caring enough. Yet we perceive them as going for the exact opposite. We perceive them as going after the nightmare of a man they always dreamed of never wanting.


So what's the solution fellow men? Do we give up our scuba diving trip in to the heart of God? Do we stop our crusade to feed every hungry child by simply caring enough and smiling? Do we trade in our scuba diving equipment for a bad attitude, bad work ethic, and array of bad habits, so we can become the nightmare she truly never wanted, but dreams of waking up next to for the rest of her life?

Fellow men, the answer to those questions is clearly no.

We can't allow life experience, and perceptions of SOME women, to jade us so much, that we become a nightmare of a man.

First of all, you don't want to end up with a woman who longs for a nightmare. Second of all, a woman shouldn't have to go to a Home Depot of relationships in order to date you. It's not her job to fix you. Third, remember, don't grow weary in doing good. We reap what we sow, and we'll reap the good in the proper time if we don't give up.
 
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Jullianna

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Re: Becoming the fixer-upper nightmare of a man she always dreamed of waking up next

Don't give up, guys. Seriously. Girls who chase rainbows and bad guys on motorcycles eventually grow up and become women who know the value of a good man and can buy their own motorcycles.