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From a worldly perspective, assuming a monogamous, exclusive relationship, if one partner cheats on another that's infidelity. As Christians, if we're seeing somebody but not engaged to them, do we have any level of commitment that means involvement with another would be wrong? Should we be obliged to disclose it? What if there's been sexual involvement with 'the other'?
On the one hand I feel that as there is no real commitment, one is free to see who they like. Also, if they choose to engage in sexual immorality with a new partner, sinful aspects aside, that's their business alone.
On the other hand, if I thought I were in an exclusive relationship with somebody and they chose to become sexually involved with somebody else (even if it wasn't as far as intercourse) I think I'd have a right to know - particularly if they wanted to continue a relationship with me. In a way, I would think this was worse than a worldly affair because if we'd agreed to conduct a pure relationship, despite temptations, then sexual intimacy with another seems more deceitful. It isn't just doing the same thing with somebody else like it would be in a worldly affair...
And yet, before engagement there's no real commitment (arguably) so I can see this both ways.
What do you think?
On the one hand I feel that as there is no real commitment, one is free to see who they like. Also, if they choose to engage in sexual immorality with a new partner, sinful aspects aside, that's their business alone.
On the other hand, if I thought I were in an exclusive relationship with somebody and they chose to become sexually involved with somebody else (even if it wasn't as far as intercourse) I think I'd have a right to know - particularly if they wanted to continue a relationship with me. In a way, I would think this was worse than a worldly affair because if we'd agreed to conduct a pure relationship, despite temptations, then sexual intimacy with another seems more deceitful. It isn't just doing the same thing with somebody else like it would be in a worldly affair...
And yet, before engagement there's no real commitment (arguably) so I can see this both ways.
What do you think?