People often say one thing and mean another.
Women do it all the time. So it's no surprise that men do too. Whatever their initial comments are to the fact that you aren't a "big eater," they are not a problem. Most men are somewhat logical in their thinking and will put the pieces together fairly quickly: she costs less to feed and keeps her figure. BINGO!
Believe me, if you were horking down three thousand calories at each sitting: no matter what they say to your face in politeness, they'll quickly put those pieces together and lose interest.
The bottom line is that you easily manage this to your benefit by taking the following steps:
1. DO order s
omething. This minimizes the problem of going out to eat and ordering nothing.
2. Be nice. If they express surprise that you are not ordering more, simply redirect the conversation to something they are interested in after telling them that their company is better than a fine meal.
Being logical creatures, they'll do the math. Let's put it into a word problem:
Should I date a person who is nice to me that doesn't cost a lot of money when I take her out for a meal and who will keep her figure?
A. Yes, I like nice good looking people.
B. No, I like unsocialized ugly people.
C. I don't know, I'm too stupid to figure it out.
Obviously A is the correct choice and, of course, you'd not want to date someone that is a B or C person anyways.
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Lolol...
So, men, am very curious on what your thoughts are. Would you date a girl who hardly ate when you took her out for dinner?
