Contemplating giving up on love...

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GreenNnice

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NodMyHeadLikeYeah said:
Ok look.. real talk here.

You sound totally desperate, women pick up on desperate. We dont like desperate. I mean come on now you asked every girl you know to date you... if any of those girls are friends there gonna talk, there gonna know you just asked out one of them then the next however long later. So of course there saying no!!
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Nods tells it like it is, about that I get no doubt and that's no tub of tumbo wumbo, or, chumbawumba , if you prefer. :D

TheBoy, you are getting free very good practical (I call it 'spiritual' too if I'm getting advice, but whatever, call it 'whatever' if you're a Calvin fan. :D ) advice .

A girl does not do DESPERATE Nods is saying in no uncertain terms.
 
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Reeseluv27

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Their stupid, don't get discouraged. Plenty of fish in the see. Maybe God id trying to tell you something. Pray about it. :)

God Bless

Reeseluv27
 
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Maddog

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Good. Enjoy being single. Once you're content with the idea that you don't have to get romatically involved with women then your burden and your struggle disappears.

Ironically, once you do that, you actually become more attractive to the opposite sex because women don't want to feel that you need them in order to be happy. Imagine feeling responsible for someone else's happiness - it's just too much pressure.

Once you remove that pressure by demonstrating that you're fine as you are (and not desperate, as Noddy put it), then you'll have a fighting chance of catching a nice fish. But you know what the best part is? Even though by being strong and independent you'll be much better equipped to hook a tasty morsel for your supper, you'll realise that you don't have to go fishing after all since you're already happy as you are. Or there's a good fish and chip just down the road (sorry, getting lost in my own metaphor now).
 
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