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Jullianna

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Nosey coworkers bring out the best in me. :) The grenades might be a bit harsh. In a kinder, gentler world, we should probably use these instead. 7290_147mm_High.jpg
 
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erika83

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lil_christian said:
As weird as this sounds I have a somewhat similar situation (except the guy I get teased about is Christian). Best thing to do is be patient with your coworkers. Don't react too much or they might think that you're jumping to the defense because you're trying to hide something or what they're teasing you about is true. I see no issue with continuing being his friend, though. It isn't his fault or yours that you and him are being teased. As long as he's not acting too flirty or making you uncomfortable with how he acts don't worry about it.
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This is what I'm doing for now because exactly like you said it's not our fault. I just wish people were less curious and nosy about single people. That is probably a wish that will never come true :p
 
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muwasimo

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erika83 said:
If a coworker asked you out, would you automatically assume he is interested in you or just wants to befriend you?
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Yes.
By the time I ask out a girl, I have interest. I have been seeing her for a while, and feel it would be nice to move on with her.
My two cents!
 
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erika83

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Update! Looks like my suspicions were founded after all as my coworker asked me if there could be something more between us....I told him no (explaining why - telling about my faith). I know I did the right decision but sometimes I have thoughts like I lost something great, because he is a very good guy. Anyway been some awkward days since then as we work together so I'm seeing him daily but he is really nice and we kinda act like nothing happened. I think with time awkwardness is going to be less and I'd like to stay friends with him...do you think that is a good idea or I should totally avoid him after work?
 
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Hellooo

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I would just maintain professionalism and keep things business-only between the two of you, particularly to avoid fueling further workplace gossip.
 
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Stuey

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Great to hear things worked out Erika!

Na be friends with him in my opinion, you aren't interested & he knows this. Let them gossip if they need to, if anything this will bring attention to your Christian faith if he discusses your actions with others.

But I mean would you stop being friends with a Christian friend who liked you but who you didn't like in that way? I feel you wouldn't.
 
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erika83

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Stuey said:
Great to hear things worked out Erika!

Na be friends with him in my opinion, you aren't interested & he knows this. Let them gossip if they need to, if anything this will bring attention to your Christian faith if he discusses your actions with others.

But I mean would you stop being friends with a Christian friend who liked you but who you didn't like in that way? I feel you wouldn't.
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You are right, I still like him and maybe hanging out sometimes (in group) will bring more opportunity to talk about God. He's not a typical non Christian who likes to party, drink and is very respectful, safe to be around. Thanks for your opinion!
 
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xXErraticEmilyXx

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I'm sorry you have to put up with this. Just think- it'll stop sooner or later. Are you new there?
I kind of have the same situation as you too. Most people I mention him to think I'm interested in dating him and say "You can't marry a non-christian." Hold on now- he's my co-worker, someone I don't know well. He might be kind and make good company, but marry him? Jeez, people.
I can sympathize for you here lol I wish I could but ointment and a band-aid on it for you, but time should take care of it. I think yo're doing the right thing by not giving your co-workers a reaction.
 
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you should never care about what stupid people think or say, if he is being helpful allow it, who knows you could be the one who plants the seed.
 
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erika83

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xXErraticEmilyXx said:
I'm sorry you have to put up with this. Just think- it'll stop sooner or later. Are you new there?
I kind of have the same situation as you too. Most people I mention him to think I'm interested in dating him and say "You can't marry a non-christian." Hold on now- he's my co-worker, someone I don't know well. He might be kind and make good company, but marry him? Jeez, people.
I can sympathize for you here lol I wish I could but ointment and a band-aid on it for you, but time should take care of it. I think yo're doing the right thing by not giving your co-workers a reaction.
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People just love to stick their noses in others private lives....I don't get this, what's so fun about it? I'm not new at work, been 3 years I'm working here but as both my coworker and I didn't have a relationship in these years they want to ''help'' us lol. Taking things easy is the best approach and don't let myself bother by their silly jokes. I suggest you do the same, the more you defend yourself the more they make up stories :p
 
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