Do guys that are close friends with other guys help them find a girlfriend?
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I would not think it is my responsibility to set anyone up, male or female. I also don't expect anyone else to set me up either. I don't get why people think their love life is anyone elses responsibility.
Far as the whole 'all guys do is fart, etc..' comment, i find it ironic coming from a female, who only see's one side of how guys act and assume that is all there is to them. When i was a teen did we do all that silly stuff? Yeah, we did. Was that all we did? Not at all. A few of my friends and i started a bible study. My best friend through my teens we often discussed our faith, our struggles, the bible. We tried to help each other through the tough times. Correct each other when needed.
Far as the whole 'all guys do is fart, etc..' comment, i find it ironic coming from a female, who only see's one side of how guys act and assume that is all there is to them. When i was a teen did we do all that silly stuff? Yeah, we did. Was that all we did? Not at all. A few of my friends and i started a bible study. My best friend through my teens we often discussed our faith, our struggles, the bible. We tried to help each other through the tough times. Correct each other when needed.
noooo......
I hate being set up and I would not wish that upon anyone. Now if someone is subtle and says something like, "Don't you think so and so is (smart, cool, amazing, neat, pretty, thoughtful, etc)?" I might try to get to know that person. However, if someone introduces us, I will be skeptical.
The worst attempt is usually the invite both parties to something and then you the coordinator flake but tell the people that you are seeing to have fun without you.
I think if people have the freedom to see and enjoy each other's company they will. However if pushed, people will become skeptical.
I hate being set up and I would not wish that upon anyone. Now if someone is subtle and says something like, "Don't you think so and so is (smart, cool, amazing, neat, pretty, thoughtful, etc)?" I might try to get to know that person. However, if someone introduces us, I will be skeptical.
The worst attempt is usually the invite both parties to something and then you the coordinator flake but tell the people that you are seeing to have fun without you.
I think if people have the freedom to see and enjoy each other's company they will. However if pushed, people will become skeptical.
My friend is soooo picky-that i just gave up 
Dot get off the computer and go socialise. Try dancing, salsa is fun and very social.
I'm all for setting people up but I think it is going to be extremely difficult to make work. People have different needs and different things that they are looking for, I know it would be a nightmare for the person trying to find a right person for me. Don't mind them trying though. hahaha.
Why such a lack of perseverance? The hardest challenges are the most satisfying are they not?
Dot get off the computer and go socialise. Try dancing, salsa is fun and very social.
I'm all for setting people up but I think it is going to be extremely difficult to make work. People have different needs and different things that they are looking for, I know it would be a nightmare for the person trying to find a right person for me. Don't mind them trying though. hahaha.
Dot get off the computer and go socialise. Try dancing, salsa is fun and very social.
I'm all for setting people up but I think it is going to be extremely difficult to make work. People have different needs and different things that they are looking for, I know it would be a nightmare for the person trying to find a right person for me. Don't mind them trying though. hahaha.
And he is not one of those 'i like salsa' guys. He likes to ride a motorcycle.