Does God have a special someone for everyone?

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May 3, 2013
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Congrats! You are young, honest, loving (allow me to say LOVING) and I thank you for having written that (keep a copy to back up others like you).
Frances Rivers was wronged in: "the man was meant to marry a Prostitute". We, like normal women, do not like those who go cheating and kissing boys everywhere (may this be clear from an old man) (´cause young will say the same).
I wrote a blog here (and somewhere else) and, same way as dozen people, ALL want to find the missing piece (it is not a rib, as you said) but we have it written under the skin. It´s a program or code working over mind and good intentions...
You´re not ugly or fat, like me, so that will improve your chances to marry. I decided to avoid children and I face vasectomy, so that will spare me time from seeing kids, a 4th time, because I enjoyed being married, but my mom also dreams a rich man would come to woo and marry her again (she´s more than 70). Ja! Ja! And ALL humans have these dreams (I´m not guilty for daydreaming)
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I have a friend who, same way like me, dreams to marry someone who has what ADAM lost for EVE (let´s say same ADN, likes and needs). But I spent 40-50 years for nothing and I´m convinced THOSE CHOICES ARE MINE. He can help me, but He hasn´t made anyone for me and, if He has done a woman, I missed her all the LOST year of this life and, it is my fault (it is I whom I blame) that I lack the materials means (money, a car, a whatever thing world considers sexy or appealing). Ja! Ja! (I´m kidding and telling my truth also) But I´m glad I´ve learnt why I´m not loved, because that´s what world has taught us to do: We have loved the externals.
Love is not selfish. Love depends in my relationship to God (1st) and my relationship to people. Young and old people lack this knowledge up to that day we know SIN has banned us to be like this (and I confessed I married for wrong reasons, and one was to have legal sex).
I never intended to have children. I got Joshua, Elisha Vincent and Joy (I lost 1 who died). I had a family and I lost it before being devorced, because I married the wrong person and I was her wrong man, also.
Do not feel bad. you´re not ugly! I have thought on those who lack a leg, those who are blind and those who cannot not move. I have read on those who have more limitations, physical and economics, and God has blessed my life. I´m blessed like everyone else, but Jesus did not married, He has not children, He limited his life for a purpose, and would like to llimit mine, but it is limited, as it shows itself.
Virtual sites do not help to find your Mr Right one. A disco is not the place to meet your special one... But don´t give up. :D
 
May 3, 2013
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There´s not a real rule for loving! I loved a girl on her 40 who used to say kind things. We were used to date hours and we often have to be reminded of the time in malls, just to leave, since Venezuela is unsafe. I felt like a teenager. I loved her as much as I loved MP, a girl whom I loved most... The thing ended up by the moment she said she would visit a "friend" in Spain who was paying the traver cost (9.000 US dollars) and she would spent a month abroad... I became jelous! I made in my mind an idea on how she would pay (she´s free to do what she does) but I learnt I don´t have anything to do with unbelievers and those who are not commited Christians. I knew I wasn´t the man she needed, but I came to be engaged when I tried to help, to back up, when she was leaving Colombia and felt hurt when someone hurt her and left her alone... So I see nothing to do with pagan. And we, as Christians, are not any better, but certanly NOT WORST.
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