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This thread has been created for our fellow brothers who have 101 questions pertaining to the female species.... Yes, we can be difficult at times and often hard to read but maybe some advice and tips from us, woman, will help alleviate some frustration and clear up some confusion you may have
Tips:
1. Be a gentleman.
2. There's a difference between saying what's on your mind and being down right rude.
3. Oh and....
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Tips:
1. Be a gentleman.
2. There's a difference between saying what's on your mind and being down right rude.
3. Oh and....
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Ok I've got one to add. Not directed towards anyone in particular. Guys, when you come and complain to your single female friend about how you are lonely and can't find a nice girl (maybe I'm weird and it only happens to me but I bet there are others); it's very hard for the gal not to take it on some level as a personal rejection, regardless of whether or not she is interested in you. What she hears is something along the lines of you are so pathetic as a woman that I've never even considered that some guy might want to be in a relationship with you. We know you don't mean that, and usually aren't going to interrupt you because well it's just not nice to kick a guy when he's down and sharing some of his deeper hurts. But please either add in some more honest criteria so we know we're good in our own right and just not what you're looking for (not the perfect physique criteria unless you want us to think you're shallow) or save these conversations for the guys or married couples.
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*looks around and notices that this thread is still going strong*
Okay, so note to guys.....
1. Send her random messages....
2. Call her at unusual times...
3. Tell her she is beautiful when she isn't looking all that beautiful
4. When she is trying to be serious and make a point, listen....
5. Don't do the reverse psychology thing
Okay, so note to guys.....
1. Send her random messages....
2. Call her at unusual times...
3. Tell her she is beautiful when she isn't looking all that beautiful
4. When she is trying to be serious and make a point, listen....
5. Don't do the reverse psychology thing
Okay so I have lived with a house full of girls my entire life and somethings I have seen is just plain ridiculous.
take this for instance. you and your girlfriend are going dress shopping, obviously she doesn't give a hoot that its complete torture for you but guys just be lucky your not going bra shopping in Victoria's secret because they will spend hours there.
anyways she tries on a dress and then pops the big question- does this make me look fat?
Okay so i'm sitting here thinking why does she always ask me this even though it never matters what I say?
You say honey you look sexy she then gets mad saying your lying and your like what the heck?
if your honest and say it kind a does well next thing you know there are two security guards trying to save your life from a clawing and biting chick
if you just sit there an say your beautiful to me no matter what you wear -BINGO that's the answer their looking for.
My question is why do you even bother asking when that's not really the answer you are looking for?
I used to be tortured as a kid because My mom had lots of money and I had six sisters and we would spend hours at the mall only buying the girls things and only looking at girl stuff and they always ask that question and I would just blankly look at them and walk away because I knew what would happen
take this for instance. you and your girlfriend are going dress shopping, obviously she doesn't give a hoot that its complete torture for you but guys just be lucky your not going bra shopping in Victoria's secret because they will spend hours there.
anyways she tries on a dress and then pops the big question- does this make me look fat?
Okay so i'm sitting here thinking why does she always ask me this even though it never matters what I say?
You say honey you look sexy she then gets mad saying your lying and your like what the heck?
if your honest and say it kind a does well next thing you know there are two security guards trying to save your life from a clawing and biting chick
if you just sit there an say your beautiful to me no matter what you wear -BINGO that's the answer their looking for.
My question is why do you even bother asking when that's not really the answer you are looking for?
I used to be tortured as a kid because My mom had lots of money and I had six sisters and we would spend hours at the mall only buying the girls things and only looking at girl stuff and they always ask that question and I would just blankly look at them and walk away because I knew what would happen
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Should a man be worried about the kind of woman who comes on too strong? A woman who makes all the first moves, who gives you an abundance of compliments, sort of emotionally attaches herself to a man very early on? Is this normal behavior? Or should the man always be the one to initiate and assert himself and be more dominant in that kind of thing?
*looks around and notices that this thread is still going strong*
Okay, so note to guys.....
1. Send her random messages....
2. Call her at unusual times...
3. Tell her she is beautiful when she isn't looking all that beautiful
4. When she is trying to be serious and make a point, listen....
5. Don't do the reverse psychology thing
Okay, so note to guys.....
1. Send her random messages....
2. Call her at unusual times...
3. Tell her she is beautiful when she isn't looking all that beautiful
4. When she is trying to be serious and make a point, listen....
5. Don't do the reverse psychology thing
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*looks around and notices that this thread is still going strong*
Okay, so note to guys.....
1. Send her random messages....
2. Call her at unusual times...
3. Tell her she is beautiful when she isn't looking all that beautiful
4. When she is trying to be serious and make a point, listen....
5. Don't do the reverse psychology thing
Okay, so note to guys.....
1. Send her random messages....
2. Call her at unusual times...
3. Tell her she is beautiful when she isn't looking all that beautiful
4. When she is trying to be serious and make a point, listen....
5. Don't do the reverse psychology thing
Bad examples of this:
1. texting in the middle of the night, "How often do you clean under your bed? It's DUSTY down here."
2. you're out to eat, she just excused herself to the bathroom, "Hi, Honey, I just wanted to see how you are doing." or when you know she is in church, at the doctor, or while she is in a business meeting.
3. Do not include the phrase, "I prefer you this way."
4. ...to your ipod
5. unless she says to never do the...
lol, ok.. just trying to have a little fun
Inu has good advice. Seriously.
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Bad examples of this:
1. texting in the middle of the night, "How often do you clean under your bed? It's DUSTY down here."
2. you're out to eat, she just excused herself to the bathroom, "Hi, Honey, I just wanted to see how you are doing." or when you know she is in church, at the doctor, or while she is in a business meeting.
3. Do not include the phrase, "I prefer you this way."
4. ...to your ipod
5. unless she says to never do the...
lol, ok.. just trying to have a little fun Inu has good advice. Seriously.
1. texting in the middle of the night, "How often do you clean under your bed? It's DUSTY down here."
2. you're out to eat, she just excused herself to the bathroom, "Hi, Honey, I just wanted to see how you are doing." or when you know she is in church, at the doctor, or while she is in a business meeting.
3. Do not include the phrase, "I prefer you this way."
4. ...to your ipod
5. unless she says to never do the...
lol, ok.. just trying to have a little fun
Inu has good advice. Seriously.