Frustrated and annoyed.

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setapartgirl

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#21
I know it is so frustrating and it does hurt especially when they are your friends. But one thing to remember is that what was right for your friends is not always right for you. You do know that just because a woman is over thirty does not mean they cannot be healthy and they can and do end up having healthy pregnancies. God can and will do anything we just need to be faithful and to trust him completely. I know it is a lot easier said then done. My advice is do things you have always wanted to do besides this one and who knows what God will do when his children are pushing forward with their life and putting all their faith and trust in him
Yes, that's right i always tell them that i'd rather be single than be in a relationship that is just so wrong, unhappy relationship that doesn't honor God, as of now, i want to continue to level in my career and my faith with God, and also spend my available time with family and friends.

well i must admit, i get jelousn, when i see a sweet couple.
 
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setapartgirl

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#22
Aw, now my eyes are tearing up as well :')! You are very welcome my sister, and I'm glad we got to talk this morning/evening :).

Maybe i need to keep my faith stronger, my problem is that i don't know how to approach guys you know, it's awkward. Lol

But i will be alright. thank you sis,

*Hugs*

There's someone out there also, waiting for me, right?
i hope he will find me soonest...if ever i will i will post it here,,haha
Aw, now my eyes are tearing up as well :')! You are very welcome my sister, and I'm glad we got to talk this morning/evening :).


*hugs again*

Maybe i need to keep my faith stronger, my problem is that i don't know how to approach guys you know, it's awkward. Lol

But i will be alright. thank you sis,

*Hugs*

There's someone out there also, waiting for me, right?
i hope he will find me soonest...if ever i will i will post it here,,haha
 
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setapartgirl

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#23
i'm 28 and still single too.. lol.. no worries.. its better wait patiently than rush looking for mr.right.. my friend told me that she regret married (she is at the same age like us, standart face, love God too, and she think that his husband is the right man for her --> now??? she regret it!! she try to stay in marriage while everything is hard for her).. so she advice to us (single ladies) to wait patiently and no worries (honestly sometimes its hard for me too.. i also wondering too sometimes.. lol)


Yes, you are very right sis, i hope all people have the same mentalities that we have, i have friends also, they married and had family early but look at them right now, well there are some that are happy with their marriage life, good for them, but i'd rather marry at 30 or more to mr. Right than to marry now and have a frog prince
 
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setapartgirl

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#24
I got a question...why is this mainly a female 'thang"? I have yet to read a comment like this from a male. Please do not see this as a put down...I really would love to stop seeing all the lovelorn single/divorced or lonely females out there, pining away for a man in shining armor to sweep them up off their feet and into a sweet embrace, complete with bluebirds, angels, roses, and little butterflies. As the old hymn goes "HAVE FAITH IN GOD, When your pathway is lonely. He sees and knows all the way you have trod. Never alone are the sheep of HIS pasture, have faith in GOD..have faith in GOD..THERE is no mention of "PLACE your cares and worries on the internet..that is your answer..so that the world will see you as you are." Personally..when I hurt and worry...the internet is NOT my dumping ground that I go to....
I understand sir, we are women, that's what we are, men are from mars, women are from venus, the point here is, i'm just merely asking for advice from Christian people, not wordly poeple, because between that two types of people, probably than not, they will tell you different advices, sharing advices, sharing experience that will help you, correct me if i'm wrong, but that's one of the reason why this site was made, if you found my post offensive, really, just don't read through about some girly comments. THANK YOU for your Honest comment though.
 
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nickvalerion

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#25
Well God isnt limited to time and he has promised us the best in due time...It can be frustrating especially when people pressure you...but thats the test to your patience in God....God will surely reward you if you dont waver.
 

Tinkerbell725

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#26
Be strong sister...you are not alone...be still...continue to improve yourself so you will be ready when the right man comes along. May you have the wisdom and the discernment to recognize Mr right the moment he presents himself to you. Look for opportunities to be able to connect with new people but learn to filter the bad ones. Be proactive. Dont be afraid of rejection, its part of life. Take risks everyday...happiness is proportional to the risks that we take...
 
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setapartgirl

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#27
I understand sir, we are women, that's what we are, men are from mars, women are from venus, the point here is, i'm just merely asking for advice from Christian people, not wordly poeple, because between that two types of people, probably than not, they will tell you different advices, sharing advices, sharing experience that will help you, correct me if i'm wrong, but that's one of the reason why this site was made, if you found my post offensive, really, just don't read through about some girly comments. THANK YOU for your Honest comment though.
Be strong sister...you are not alone...be still...continue to improve yourself so you will be ready when the right man comes along. May you have the wisdom and the discernment to recognize Mr right the moment he presents himself to you. Look for opportunities to be able to connect with new people but learn to filter the bad ones. Be proactive. Dont be afraid of rejection, its part of life. Take risks everyday...happiness is proportional to the risks that we take...

Sister, these words are really really realky nice, i'm kind of confused right now, and you hit the right words, Thank you so much. GODBLESS you more
 
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setapartgirl

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#28
Well God isnt limited to time and he has promised us the best in due time...It can be frustrating especially when people pressure you...but thats the test to your patience in God....God will surely reward you if you dont waver.
You are righr sir, thank you very much, all of your advices were true and helped me really..thank you again
 
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Practice-English

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#29
Let me talk a minute..
I'll be totally honest with you
with full of big respects for sure!
I'm gonna to proceed it by telling you
that I'm wondering if your ''friends''
are Christians or not...
If they are, they are not supposed to do that.
My name is Amanda and I completely
understand your situation,
I'm just 17 but my Family is stressful too
because they tell me full of unfriendly bad jokes,
just because I'm small,
I never had boyfriends,
I'm Chinese,
I've little feet like 7 years old's feet and stuff like that,
even if I tell to them kindly that's not cool
they keep going to make bored jokes ETC.

I won't help you because
I'm in the situation as you
and I see full of social workers
to help me but what I can do
is send you a verse of the Day!


It's John 3:16
For God loved the world so much that he gave his only Son.
God gave his Son so that whoever believes in him may not be lost,
but have eternal life.


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