What is God intent for marriage? Most people believe that if I may this person, it will be the end of my problems. That is not the case. The first 3-5 years are hard....most studies show that marriage end during that time. God uses marriage to better us. To show the other person love, when we don't feel like it, or when our spouse shows us actions that would not want us to love them.
Keep you eyes on Him. I like what Joshua Harris said in his book, I Kisses Dating Goodbye. What is the motivation in relationships, pleasing yourself or serving others?