Getting passed being cheated on.

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SparkleEyes

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Mar 23, 2013
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JesusFreak787 said:
So today I found out that my girl friend of 3 months, was cheating on me the entire relationship. She was cheating on her boyfriend with me.
I didn't know until last night when I saw message they exchanged. She has lied to me telling me how much she loved me for 3 months. Then she said she couldn't choose between us and then picked him Also she had been flirting with like 4 other guys on skype.-_- it has just been a really bad day.
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IMO, if you did not have an agreement (maybe you did) that neither of you were to date anyone else, then she was NOT cheating on you.

Personally, I would NOT have an agreement NOT to date anyone else so early in a relationship. If and until we would BOTH agree that things were serious, THEN would I agree to be exclusive - but NOT before.

I am a long time believer by the way.
 
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MollyConnor

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Aw I'm sorry this happened to you! Pray to the Lord and read the Word, this will help you. I will pray for you too.
Tell the Lord you would like to find the one he has for you and trust in him that he will bring her into your life.

By the way, it may seem like the world is over, but it isn't. It is obvious the Lord is looking out for you because you dodged a huge bullet. Can you imagine how much harder it would have been if you had married her and had children with her? Good thing you found out now.

So keep your head high and look onto the Lord. He will lead you to who he wants you to be with, the person he made specifically for you. Hope you find her soon.
God bless!
 
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cobbindy

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Its been ten years and two kids then I just find out Saturday two weeks after my 31st birthday that she is messing around with someone who acted like a friend just over drinking and haveing some drugs to do I don't know what to do all I keep thinking about is her and him ands its messing me up.
 
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