Girls: How do you like guys to approach you?

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eric135

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I'm currently 20, and I've been single my entire life. It's not because I can't get a date, but more because I wanted to enjoy my younger years and do what I wanted. Now I feel that it's the right time to start dating, and I don't have a problem actually talking to girls, but more so introducing myself. How do you like a guy to approach you and start a conversation? Obviously I'm not going to walk up and say "I like you, will you go out with me?", but I don't really know what questions to ask to start a conversation or icebreakers to use. Just looking to get opinions :) thanks.
 
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Maddog

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Chloroform is your friend. If she's unconscious, you don't have to worry about conversation.
 
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iliveforHim

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Maddog said:
Chloroform is your friend. If she's unconscious, you don't have to worry about conversation.
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Maddog, you scare me. :( (lol)
 
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greatkraw

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stamp on her foot and then apologise

i heard of christian guys letting down a tyre so they could go to the rescue

honesty in a relationship is important:D
 
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iliveforHim

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greatkraw said:
stamp on her foot and then apologise

i heard of christian guys letting down a tyre so they could go to the rescue

honesty in a relationship is important:D
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That's funny! Psychotic, but funny...
 
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iliveforHim

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Maddog said:
The funny thing is, the nickname 'Maddog' was originally ironic. Until I crippled a man.
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You crippled him how? By making him laugh so hard at your goofy silliness????? :rolleyes:
 
DinoDillinger

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eric135 said:
I'm currently 20, and I've been single my entire life. It's not because I can't get a date, but more because I wanted to enjoy my younger years and do what I wanted. Now I feel that it's the right time to start dating, and I don't have a problem actually talking to girls, but more so introducing myself. How do you like a guy to approach you and start a conversation? Obviously I'm not going to walk up and say "I like you, will you go out with me?", but I don't really know what questions to ask to start a conversation or icebreakers to use. Just looking to get opinions :) thanks.
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Actually you should try that. Let me know how it goes.
 
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Harley_Angel

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I had a guy approach me in a Barnes and Noble...mind you he was probably only 16 and I'm 23 and married, but he came up to me, held out at his hand and said, "Hey my name is <I don't remember>, I saw you and thought you were pretty cute, and you seem to have good taste in books, would you like to maybe have a cup of coffee with me and get to know each other?"

It was really sweet, very honest, and not pushy, creepy, or awkward...thinking back on it, I feel sort of bad for laughing at him...
 
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iliveforHim

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Harley_Angel said:
I had a guy approach me in a Barnes and Noble...mind you he was probably only 16 and I'm 23 and married, but he came up to me, held out at his hand and said, "Hey my name is <I don't remember>, I saw you and thought you were pretty cute, and you seem to have good taste in books, would you like to maybe have a cup of coffee with me and get to know each other?"

It was really sweet, very honest, and not pushy, creepy, or awkward...thinking back on it, I feel sort of bad for laughing at him...
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Poor kid's ego must've been crushed...ruthless is what you are, Mrs. Harley!!!

first your plan for CCG's brother, now this...goodness... ;)
 
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kevin33

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HI YOU LADYS PROBABLY ARE NOT WANTING GUYS ON HERE BUT AS A NEW CHRISTIAN AND NOT REALLY EVER KNOWING HOW TO TREAT MY WIFE TO SOMETHING SPECIAL (BASICALLY BEFORE I WAS ALWAYS JUST FULL OF LUST AND NOT REALLY KNOWING HOW TO SHOW LOVE WITHOUT SEX) COULD I GET SOME POINTERS OF HOW TO DO SOMETHING SPECIAL FOR MY WIFE TO SHOW HER THAT I CARE
 
MahogonySnail

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I'm currently 20, and I've been single my entire life.
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But only a few years out of puberty, so it's not such a shock that you are single.
 
MahogonySnail

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I had a guy approach me in a Barnes and Noble...mind you he was probably only 16 and I'm 23 and married, but he came up to me, held out at his hand and said, "Hey my name is <I don't remember>, I saw you and thought you were pretty cute, and you seem to have good taste in books, would you like to maybe have a cup of coffee with me and get to know each other?"
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"seem to have good taste in books".

LOL.

That's when you're suppose to drop your books on the ground so he can pick them up for you :).

Actually that happened to me once, I was waiting for a bus, this girl walks passed and drops her books right in front of me. Though not on purpose I'm sure.
 
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goth4god

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ask a super random question... like "what is your view on the whole 'pirates VS ninja' thing?"
something like that would grab my attention! =D
 
SoLoved

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Maddog said:
Chloroform is your friend. If she's unconscious, you don't have to worry about conversation.
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Yes, totally go for the chloroform. While she is unconscious you can ponder how you will explain it all to her, and if she doesn't find you a psychosomatic freak, she'll totally fall for you.
 
MahogonySnail

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Who needs chloroform when you have a great knock-out body ? :D.
 
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Harley_Angel

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Everyone can have a knock out body if you know where to punch.
 
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ilovehillsong

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This thread appears to have attracted some scary people.

...Back on topic...Just be honest. Ask nice questions, and listen to the answers. So they know you care.
 
Moviefan2k4

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In my personal opinion, some girls don't really mean it when they ask guys to be honest. Generally speaking, men aren't that "deep" in terms of thought, and as such we're much easier to understand than the average woman. I've heard this said many times, and I think its true: "If women really knew what we were thinking, they'd be far more disgusted with us than ever before".

The main problem for men is not knowing what is safe for him to say. He doesn't want to be rejected, or worse yet, kicked in a very sensitive spot...so he fumbles around, trying to come up with something insightful.....usually crashing and burning for his trouble.
 
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