Help Mates, in todays world?

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cctmedic

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So, I know this has been kicked around and discussed in many ways and thought processes. Here is another one.

I was reading the other day and was hit with something a little different, for me. For the past twenty or so years. or more, I have believed in Traditional gender rolls. That has not changed. I was raised by a single mother who did everything for us. God Bless her. Thank You MOM. But I was reading creation, and thinking about the world today.

ladies You have been done a terrible injustice. We as a society have led you to believe that you don't need a man. I know it's hard to believe that the world would teach such non-sence. I have watched as women struggle with this, time and time again. Even my own daughters. I can remember when one of my daughters was in college and longing for companionship and voicing that longing to me. Then in the very next breath saying something like, "I know I dont need a man I can make it on my own just fine". Really, She had been given a big dose of the femenist's cool aide, and deep inside she did not like the way it tastes. That was a few years ago and she is since married but the ideations still creep in from time to time.

Lets go back to primary Sunday School for a moment. God made man, Adam. Man was a lone for some time period. God siad it is not good for man to be alone(Amen). God said lets make him a helpmate. God made Eve, not from the dirt as adam was, but from adam himself for him to give Glory to God himself. So, Eve was. God made a way for them to be one together, and a great way, I might add.

Eve was not created independantly of Adam but thru Adam. She was never without man or Adam in this case. She was never meant to be withotu Adam. God made adam. and saw he had a need. God granted that need.

Ladies you are not created to be loaners and indepandant of Man. but instead created to be helpmates to man, thru Man and for Man.

Men, dont think you have some false since of controll in all of this. You don't. God has Given Us the extreme responsibility of being that leader. That means to be all we need to be, we need help. men you are responsible for your woman to Honor and care for her. To hold in High regards as God intended.

Neither, man nor woman, will ever be( Truly) happy or fulfilled until such a time as we realize our rolls in creation and Gods plan for our genders. Just because the world says we need to be one way does not, nor will it ever make it Gods way.

ladies help Your Men, as thier help mate. Affirm them give them thier place of responsibility. God will Honor you commitment.

Men, honor your wives as treasure more valuable than gold or gems. God wil be glorified and honor you.

I Mulled over this as to wether or not to post this, due to the possible contraversy. I know that the very ones that object are pridefully and wrongfully holding on to thier independence. I am aware that men have dropped the ball for decades and women felt they had to step up. For that, I appologize for men. I will try to spread the word that we failed and need to step up. and take our place as men so you can be blessed enough to be the ladies you were created to be.

God Bless you all
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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This was a great post :)
 
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NukePooch

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I agree...good post. No controversy here.
 
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Ugly

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1 Corinthians 7:8
8 So I say to those who aren’t married and to widows—it’s better to stay unmarried, just as I am. 9 But if they can’t control themselves, they should go ahead and marry. It’s better to marry than to burn with lust.
 
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kenisyes

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It's not help mates. It's help meets. To me, it makes a gigantic difference.

One day, I went to look up the Jewish medical teaching on the anatomy of the body. I figured men ought to have one less rib on one side than on the other, in the Jewish teaching. They do not.

Before the sin: "a man shall leave father and mother and cling to his wife". After the sin, "your urge shall be for your husband, and he shall lord it over you."