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Hi fellow brothers and sisters
As you all can see ive been inactive for the past 5 months; so much going on.
For those who have read my previous threads and know that ive had difficulties with my boyfriend, well he broke up with me 4 months ago. Ive been in constant heart break for 3 months, because after breaking up with me he could not just let go of me. He made me believe he still liked me and that i still had a chance too many times. But now its been a month that we cut all contacts for good, and im feeling way better.
The only thing is, im finding it hard, living in the same city as him, not to cross his path. We have the same interests and used to go to the same places. But i know for sure that i dont want him to keep me from living my life. So i still want to go wherever i want to go.
What i want to know is, how can i get over him if i know we might cross paths again? Im over him in a way that being away from him and not talking to him at all doesnt really bother me anymore, but i know i might still feel things if i see him again (happened before). Im scared hes gonna do like he always does, and come at me and talk to me as if he still liked me and cared for me (after proving me he doesnt at all). Do you think i should still do my thing or stop going to those places and activities?
Also i think were gonna go to the same college next year. When we were together i remember him saying he was accepted to that college, and thats where i wanna go too since im going to move almost right beside it.
I just cant imagine myself seeing him at school all the time. What can i do??
As you all can see ive been inactive for the past 5 months; so much going on.
For those who have read my previous threads and know that ive had difficulties with my boyfriend, well he broke up with me 4 months ago. Ive been in constant heart break for 3 months, because after breaking up with me he could not just let go of me. He made me believe he still liked me and that i still had a chance too many times. But now its been a month that we cut all contacts for good, and im feeling way better.
The only thing is, im finding it hard, living in the same city as him, not to cross his path. We have the same interests and used to go to the same places. But i know for sure that i dont want him to keep me from living my life. So i still want to go wherever i want to go.
What i want to know is, how can i get over him if i know we might cross paths again? Im over him in a way that being away from him and not talking to him at all doesnt really bother me anymore, but i know i might still feel things if i see him again (happened before). Im scared hes gonna do like he always does, and come at me and talk to me as if he still liked me and cared for me (after proving me he doesnt at all). Do you think i should still do my thing or stop going to those places and activities?
Also i think were gonna go to the same college next year. When we were together i remember him saying he was accepted to that college, and thats where i wanna go too since im going to move almost right beside it.
I just cant imagine myself seeing him at school all the time. What can i do??