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Its not your partners responsilibity to 'put you more into the Christianity life'. You should already be in that place Before you marry. Each persons faith should already be well grounded before they enter the marriage, and within the marriage it should be encouraged, strengthened and sharpened.
Also, a husband is a husband, not a teacher. Not saying you can't learn from your husband, but i've been in relationships where i felt like a teacher, or a counselor, and i was not happy having this role. I didn't want to be a counselor or teacher to my girlfriend, or if i were married. I want to be a husband.
Its kind of like putting your spiritual walk in your husbands hands, and that's not really his responsibility. Not completely, anyways. It's yours. If you need a teacher, then seek out a teacher, a role model or whatever it is you need. Ideally from another woman, older, who can instruct and teach her from not only the bible, but her experiences. That way, when you do meet a man one day, rather than putting responsibilities on him he shouldn't have, you will already be in the right place and he can focus and function on his intended role as husband.
I can tell you, from a male perspective, this post isn't appealing, either. Most likely the men who are going to respond are going to be from other countries either seeking to get out of their country. Or are just willing to take the first woman who comes along.
And to top it all off, as was stated, this isn't a dating forum. Its more of a support/fellowship for singles area.
Also, a husband is a husband, not a teacher. Not saying you can't learn from your husband, but i've been in relationships where i felt like a teacher, or a counselor, and i was not happy having this role. I didn't want to be a counselor or teacher to my girlfriend, or if i were married. I want to be a husband.
Its kind of like putting your spiritual walk in your husbands hands, and that's not really his responsibility. Not completely, anyways. It's yours. If you need a teacher, then seek out a teacher, a role model or whatever it is you need. Ideally from another woman, older, who can instruct and teach her from not only the bible, but her experiences. That way, when you do meet a man one day, rather than putting responsibilities on him he shouldn't have, you will already be in the right place and he can focus and function on his intended role as husband.
I can tell you, from a male perspective, this post isn't appealing, either. Most likely the men who are going to respond are going to be from other countries either seeking to get out of their country. Or are just willing to take the first woman who comes along.
And to top it all off, as was stated, this isn't a dating forum. Its more of a support/fellowship for singles area.
I'm married and so I'm taken. Even though this is a Christian site, my guess is you would probably have more of a chance of getting a response if you posted a picture. It may seem shallow, but Christian guys are still guys.
I think it would be cool if people got married after meeting through sites like this. I remember emailing or PMing a guy who was really upset that a girl he was interested that he had invested three years into dumped him, and he wanted to get married by 30. Several years later, he married a woman in his early 20's when he was in his 30's, and he seemed thrilled about it. Back when he was all upset, that girl was too young to marry, culturally at least. Apparently, several people have gotten married on that site.
What about this site? Has anyone met here and then gotten married later on? Getting to know each other online can get rid of some of those shyness issues.
I think it would be cool if people got married after meeting through sites like this. I remember emailing or PMing a guy who was really upset that a girl he was interested that he had invested three years into dumped him, and he wanted to get married by 30. Several years later, he married a woman in his early 20's when he was in his 30's, and he seemed thrilled about it. Back when he was all upset, that girl was too young to marry, culturally at least. Apparently, several people have gotten married on that site.
What about this site? Has anyone met here and then gotten married later on? Getting to know each other online can get rid of some of those shyness issues.
Adda, I pray the Lord send you someone special, but it is best to be rooted and grounded in the Lord for yourself first, because he is looking for a woman who is already strong in the Lord to be one with. We all have room to grow though. Who knows maybe you meet someone who is at the same level in the Lord that you are and you both can grow together.
It's best to try and start out as friends and then see where it goes from there. Just enjoy daiting. You're getting the cart before the horse. Slow down Missy :0).
It's best to try and start out as friends and then see where it goes from there. Just enjoy daiting. You're getting the cart before the horse. Slow down Missy :0).
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Maybe you could try christian dating site or you can camera chat here on the chat site.
That way you can get to know people and maybe you will swap emails with someone after a while and take it from there.
You probably could turn to priest or books and study christianity.
A husband/partner is nice if he can inspire and encourage you in your faith and be good for and to you in faith and to being a good christian woman and learning more and attending.
But true he may not want to be your teacher starting relationship and if he does then what personality type is he?
Maybe he is sincere in investing the time to tutor and encourage and guide you in better way.
Maybe he control freak, dictator type who would treat you as not of age and not woman and instead control you in bad ways although it was good intent from the start?
Google internet, read, prayer and maybe dare yourself to church.
You may meet someone in church or you can also join christian dating site.
This seems be more chat forum not dating.
Google christian dating and see what you find.
Maybe you can start saying little prayer every day, even two words can be a start and a start is a start and something is better than nothing.
That way you can get to know people and maybe you will swap emails with someone after a while and take it from there.
You probably could turn to priest or books and study christianity.
A husband/partner is nice if he can inspire and encourage you in your faith and be good for and to you in faith and to being a good christian woman and learning more and attending.
But true he may not want to be your teacher starting relationship and if he does then what personality type is he?
Maybe he is sincere in investing the time to tutor and encourage and guide you in better way.
Maybe he control freak, dictator type who would treat you as not of age and not woman and instead control you in bad ways although it was good intent from the start?
Google internet, read, prayer and maybe dare yourself to church.
You may meet someone in church or you can also join christian dating site.
This seems be more chat forum not dating.
Google christian dating and see what you find.
Maybe you can start saying little prayer every day, even two words can be a start and a start is a start and something is better than nothing.
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Some times churches and communities and christian people are not always so welcoming but instead seem attack and chase the new comer away from them indicating they are not welcome.
That may be the wrong people you came to then.
Seek God and not the people , turn to god first and pray the good people will come to you and support you in christianity and being christian.
Be patient with this.
It may even take years before the people appear that help you and welcome you as christian.
Till then, pray and do your best with where you are and what you got and feel etc inside.
That may be the wrong people you came to then.
Seek God and not the people , turn to god first and pray the good people will come to you and support you in christianity and being christian.
Be patient with this.
It may even take years before the people appear that help you and welcome you as christian.
Till then, pray and do your best with where you are and what you got and feel etc inside.
Nice to meet you. Welcome to CC
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Despite the owner not wanting this as a dating site, he realizes romances still blossom, and there have been quite a few, over the years, that have met through CC and married. And a surprising number of relationships happen on here that never are made public. Though those typically end up not working out, which is probably why they are kept private. To keep the drama and gossip down.