Ideal First Date

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maxwel

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#21
Something that would enable conversation. So here's where I WOULDN'T want the first date to be: A Cinema, A Noisy Restaurant, A Sporting Event... etc.
My friends and I have a joke, that a cinema is where you take someone you DON"T want to talk to.
So, if you see me at the movies with some girl... don't bother asking me how I'm doing, lol.
 
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Powemm

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#22
Hmm... I think a quaint mixture of what each likes to do ..
If He is doing any projects.. I'd be like "hey! Let's go scavenger hunt For pieces to build It ) I'll pack drinks and something to eat ..
If He is into music I would say let's go into the craziest music store we can find and search for sounds you want to piece together .. Maybe sit across from each other with headphones on listening to the same track .. Him drumming it out and me with my pretend microphone ..
I would test him on getting a pedicure together at some point
walk around the city at night .. look in shops that are closed , check out the architectural structures of buildings , maybe ride an elevator in the tallest building just to look out a window .. hide behind plants when the other one isnt looking ..
I really don't care .. It's all about having fun and spontaneous things for me.. Do a coffee shop hop.. grab a blanket go to the park and read beneath trees .. dumpster dive for wine bottles .. . go to the shop and see if we can make something really crazy .. Wine bottle trees are cool ..

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Im pretty much game for whatever .. wanna go "go cart riding?" .. Let's do it
wanna stop by a friends house just to check in on em.. Maybe take some coffe and see if they want to play a board game .. I'm up for it .
Sign up for a mid run , heck I'll get dirty with ya ..
paintball? sure I'll shoot you lol
decide to go jump off a bridge into the water? heck ya!!
or simply go for a drive away from the noise , grab a blanket, watch the stars and talk about god .. .. Okay by me...
I think it's about "living" outside the box... living in the moment of how you we are lead .. Im very flexible and have no problem turning left instead of going right, or in the middle if right , turn around and go back , just to see where we end up ..no questions asked ...
first date? The ideas are endless .. whatever works in the moment ., or a special planned occasion is awesome too.. dressed up or dressed down happiness looks good in any occasion...
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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#23
I know if Powemm & I were truly madly deeply in love,our 1st date would have to include glow sand & the evening stars. Everything else would be up for debate. :)
 
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Catlynn

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#24
I think some sort of physical activity would be fun. Like rock climbing or mountain biking on trails or something. It would be nice to have something to focus on other than each other, but that also allows for conversation and fun flirting. Also, physical activities allow for competition and what date isn't complete without a little friendly competition? :p
 
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Catlynn

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#25
Hmm... I think a quaint mixture of what each likes to do ..
If He is doing any projects.. I'd be like "hey! Let's go scavenger hunt For pieces to build It ) I'll pack drinks and something to eat ..
If He is into music I would say let's go into the craziest music store we can find and search for sounds you want to piece together .. Maybe sit across from each other with headphones on listening to the same track .. Him drumming it out and me with my pretend microphone ..
I would test him on getting a pedicure together at some point
walk around the city at night .. look in shops that are closed , check out the architectural structures of buildings , maybe ride an elevator in the tallest building just to look out a window .. hide behind plants when the other one isnt looking ..
I really don't care .. It's all about having fun and spontaneous things for me.. Do a coffee shop hop.. grab a blanket go to the park and read beneath trees .. dumpster dive for wine bottles .. . go to the shop and see if we can make something really crazy .. Wine bottle trees are cool ..

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Im pretty much game for whatever .. wanna go "go cart riding?" .. Let's do it
wanna stop by a friends house just to check in on em.. Maybe take some coffe and see if they want to play a board game .. I'm up for it .
Sign up for a mid run , heck I'll get dirty with ya ..
paintball? sure I'll shoot you lol
decide to go jump off a bridge into the water? heck ya!!
or simply go for a drive away from the noise , grab a blanket, watch the stars and talk about god .. .. Okay by me...
I think it's about "living" outside the box... living in the moment of how you we are lead .. Im very flexible and have no problem turning left instead of going right, or in the middle if right , turn around and go back , just to see where we end up ..no questions asked ...
first date? The ideas are endless .. whatever works in the moment ., or a special planned occasion is awesome too.. dressed up or dressed down happiness looks good in any occasion...

Ooohhh good answers! I like you! :D
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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#26
I think some sort of physical activity would be fun. Like rock climbing or mountain biking on trails or something. It would be nice to have something to focus on other than each other, but that also allows for conversation and fun flirting. Also, physical activities allow for competition and what date isn't complete without a little friendly competition? :p
I think I dislocated a hip just reading about yer' 1st date. LOL *looks around for my medic alert necklace*
 
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Powemm

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#27
I know if Powemm & I were truly madly deeply in love,our 1st date would have to include glow sand & the evening stars. Everything else would be up for debate. :)[

Lol tore. glowsand is only for you .. No one else gets my MADD scientist self in that ... everything is always negotiable .. Like I said .. Its about living .. hey tore, let's go glowsand someone's house tonight .. You game ?
 
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MissCris

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#28
My first date with my husband, he took me to see The Passion of the Christ at a reeeeally run-down theater. He says now that he wasn't even sure if I believed in God, but he figures I'd have run the other way if I didn't. Our second date was rafting and me getting sunburned on my legs so bad that I couldn't stand up for 2 days.

I think a fun thing to do for a first date (not that I ever intend to have another FIRST date) would be geocaching.

Nah, I'm not gonna explain what that is. But it's fun.
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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#29
I know if Powemm & I were truly madly deeply in love,our 1st date would have to include glow sand & the evening stars. Everything else would be up for debate. :)[

Lol tore. glowsand is only for you .. No one else gets my MADD scientist self in that ... everything is always negotiable .. Like I said .. Its about living .. hey tore, let's go glowsand someone's house tonight .. You game ?
We're not there yet? lol
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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#32
Now see , this is where I'd say " oh yeah?"
Betcha I get my neighbors house before you do... blows finger like a smokin gun ..
and this is where I arm check you like you were a tumbleweed in a hockey rink & fast as a ninja I am at yer' neighbors house which is covered top to bottom in glowsand & I am on the porch with them smoking a pipe drinking a refreshing lemonade as I listen to them sing my praises as to what I've done in beautifying their home,Miss slowpoke!!!
 
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Powemm

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#33
My first date with my husband, he took me to see The Passion of the Christ at a reeeeally run-down theater. He says now that he wasn't even sure if I believed in God, but he figures I'd have run the other way if I didn't. Our second date was rafting and me getting sunburned on my legs so bad that I couldn't stand up for 2 days.

I think a fun thing to do for a first date (not that I ever intend to have another FIRST date) would be geocaching.

Nah, I'm not gonna explain what that is. But it's fun.

Oh ms chris!! DO TELL.. what is that ?
 
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Powemm

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#35
and this is where I arm check you like you were a tumbleweed in a hockey rink & fast as a ninja I am at yer' neighbors house which is covered top to bottom in glowsand & I am on the porch with them smoking a pipe drinking a refreshing lemonade as I listen to them sing my praises as to what I've done in beautifying their home,Miss slowpoke!!!

All that with a dislocated hip .. i AM Impressed .. Lol!!!
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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#37
Geocaching - The Official Global GPS Cache Hunt Site

"Geocaching is a free real-world outdoor treasure hunt. Players try to locate hidden containers, called geocaches, using a smartphone or GPS and can then share their experiences online."

:D
I remember hearing about that 5 yrs ago..I rarely hear of ppl doing that anymore...then again,I'm not young,hip & trendy like you crazy kids are. lol
 
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Powemm

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#38
I think some sort of physical activity would be fun. Like rock climbing or mountain biking on trails or something. It would be nice to have something to focus on other than each other, but that also allows for conversation and fun flirting. Also, physical activities allow for competition and what date isn't complete without a little friendly competition? :p
You better believe it !!!!!! Like your style girl!!
 
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Powemm

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#39
I remember hearing about that 5 yrs ago..I rarely hear of ppl doing that anymore...then again,I'm not young,hip & trendy like you crazy kids are. lol
Shoot I'd still play CB tag in a car if someone was brave enough to give me the handle ... Drive me by a trucker anyday lol
 
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piper27

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#40
Geo-caching!!! For sure!! Takes the stress out of any meaningful conversation!!
And then anything Powemm said. In fact, why wait for a date?? It just sounds fun!!