Ugly--for my own personal perspective (and the reason why I wrote the thread), I'm not differentiating between the two.
What I'm trying to say is...
Are a bunch of people who aren't entering into relationships or maintaining them (either one) qualified to tell each other or anyone how to go about doing those very things?
(Would you trust a heart surgeon to replace your heart if he'd never actually successfully performed the operation before?)
Yup, I know they're different concepts. But the principle remains the same. How is experience vs. inexperience worth when it comes to advice for a Godly, Christian relationship/marriage? (Whether finding, maintaining, or prolonging one, as we talk about the entire span of the subject here in the forum.)
What I'm trying to say is...
Are a bunch of people who aren't entering into relationships or maintaining them (either one) qualified to tell each other or anyone how to go about doing those very things?
(Would you trust a heart surgeon to replace your heart if he'd never actually successfully performed the operation before?)
Yup, I know they're different concepts. But the principle remains the same. How is experience vs. inexperience worth when it comes to advice for a Godly, Christian relationship/marriage? (Whether finding, maintaining, or prolonging one, as we talk about the entire span of the subject here in the forum.)