Well, to be honest, i used to feel insulted when i was complimented in the past XD
I've had very low self-esteem in the past. I knew i wasn't ugly, but i also knew i wasn't the bomb either. Just very average. I said to myself: "Whoever sees the real me, without any glam and glitter, and says that i am beautiful is a rare case indeed! He just might be the one for me..."
I felt insulted in the past, basically 'coz i felt there was a lack of sincerity, and the words were just spoken to curry favor. More often than not, guys used me as a bridge to get to their intended targets. Or, if they weren't really after someone else, they were after "something" else, like get me in the sack with them and such. So, i absolutely disliked getting compliments. Or, if i'm getting the feeling that a guy is developing an attraction towards me, i really start to become avoidant and such. It has become a defense mechanism of sorts...ironically enough, i still ended up with bad boys, anyway (it's the love of the dark speaking those past histories, though XD).
But now, Papa GOD has changed me so much, and i have learned to love and accept myself, and see myself as someone worthy of being admired and paid sincere compliments to
I know HE is transforming and improving me, inside and out. HE has inspired me to be the best that i can be. So now, when someone compliments me (with respect and sincerity), i say. My thank yous, and i praise GOD in my heart, 'coz i know that it's HIM who is making me beautiful
Such positive feedbacks encourage me to trust in Papa GOD even more!
Since i value sincerity, i also give credit where credit is due. So i freely compliment men and women alike with their looks. But i think my complimenting some men sometimes get them to thinking that i'm attracted to them, just because i said they're handsome XD well, not necessarily. It takes more than just looks to charm his girl
So much more.