I know this forum is for singles but i cannot help but wonder why do people freak out about being single? I havent had a girlfriend in years and one of the reasons is i see no point if i don't love her. i know if it is god's will the right one will come one day. Ask yourself this why exactly do you want a girlfriend or wife? is it just to have one or because of love? and i don't mean fake love where you have a crush on them. Also i see no reason to have sex unless i truly love this woman but i will not have until we get married. Lust is a hard thing to deal with but what is more important having sex for temporary satisfaction or loving and trusting god? so why do you want a girl friend or boyfriend? if it is because you seek love there is no greater lover than god