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God made someone for everyone.. that, or some people are excluded from that catagory selectively chosen by God's Choice. Some don't seek a potential spouse or partner maybe. Me, I seek. I seek because I get those awestruck butterflies or awe moments about kids and nurturing. And sometimes I do feel like I do want to have kids. Anyways, this blog isn't about having kids or stepping foot into the lake of parenting. This is about finding your potential partner. Or, mine..
Or yours, this blog could possibly help you too. I'm not sure. I'm not going to set the stakes high, but do this for me and maybe I'll end up with some followers *shrugs*.
Well okay, so there's a thing or two that I've discovered on the wondrous path of dating. Now I'm not embarrassed about it, things happen there's nothing you can do when you're up against the forces of human nature. I'm just going to hit it right in the gut, skip the opening speech. Sex is the jaw breaker for possibility. When it's done wrong, [before marriage] it ruins things. It ruins things, because then that's what your relationship is all about. Sex, there's nothing else there. It may not be the most finest of my educated guess' but that's what I discovered. Feel free to disagree, I'm just picking things up as I go. Kind of like taking notes.
So What I found. I don't want that. It's empty, it's troublesome to my relationship with God.
As of yesterday, something I discovered fits me better is:
I want a born again child of God. Not someone who lives in the world and parties and has a zillion + 1 friends to occupy his time with.
I want a guy who has a quiet life.
I want a guy who enjoys the finer things in life and not so much the assassinor of it, Technology. It's fine, but if he likes all the finest quality of say he replaces his phone for the NEWEST Blueberry or whatever things they have out. That's a turn off. Me I don't care or even up to date with all that stuff. Quality like that doesn't matter to me. If I could choose, I'd rather go back to the 90's where technology barely existed, but eh, what can I do. Nothing, so. But I'm not into the texting and internet phones. I have a track phone. I don't care for all the fancy big flat phones. I just use it for calling. Wish it were 2000 or 1999 again where texting didn't exist yet, or EVER. Back where there were home phones and no kid had there own little caller phone. it's ridiculous. Anyway, back to the WANT list.
I am who I am, and he better respect that. Now, I know us girls have the tendency to try and control our guys, thanks to the likes of Eve. But, From women to women, i'm sure she was nice
, but I took the liberty of changing myself so that I'm not like that. Controlling towards other people. I take what the guy gives. As in, however he is, that's how he is. Though I noticed guys like pleasing and be of liking to the girl they like so they "by choice" want to be changed so the girl will like them. But I'm coming back again to know confidently where I stand, and I know that it's right. And if the guy's way is wrong I'm going to break it off with him, unless he joins me on the right path. But if not, then I can't have a relationship with that guy.
eg. I'm on the narrow road trying to please and live by God's way, he's on the broad road living for himself trying to please no one but himself. negative + Positive equal.. well, in this case.. nothing.
Anyways, I feel I'm rambling on. So in bullet here what I'm looking for in a guy
*Child of God - Born again.
*Respects me
*Reliable + Faithful
*Honest
That's all I got so far. The rest is self explanatory, and all good nature, and chemistry.
Oh here's a few more.
*Sensitive to my needs and desires.
Or just one more.
Well, that's all folks. Thanks for reading. I hope you have a blessed day
Or yours, this blog could possibly help you too. I'm not sure. I'm not going to set the stakes high, but do this for me and maybe I'll end up with some followers *shrugs*.
Well okay, so there's a thing or two that I've discovered on the wondrous path of dating. Now I'm not embarrassed about it, things happen there's nothing you can do when you're up against the forces of human nature. I'm just going to hit it right in the gut, skip the opening speech. Sex is the jaw breaker for possibility. When it's done wrong, [before marriage] it ruins things. It ruins things, because then that's what your relationship is all about. Sex, there's nothing else there. It may not be the most finest of my educated guess' but that's what I discovered. Feel free to disagree, I'm just picking things up as I go. Kind of like taking notes.
So What I found. I don't want that. It's empty, it's troublesome to my relationship with God.
As of yesterday, something I discovered fits me better is:
I want a born again child of God. Not someone who lives in the world and parties and has a zillion + 1 friends to occupy his time with.
I want a guy who has a quiet life.
I want a guy who enjoys the finer things in life and not so much the assassinor of it, Technology. It's fine, but if he likes all the finest quality of say he replaces his phone for the NEWEST Blueberry or whatever things they have out. That's a turn off. Me I don't care or even up to date with all that stuff. Quality like that doesn't matter to me. If I could choose, I'd rather go back to the 90's where technology barely existed, but eh, what can I do. Nothing, so. But I'm not into the texting and internet phones. I have a track phone. I don't care for all the fancy big flat phones. I just use it for calling. Wish it were 2000 or 1999 again where texting didn't exist yet, or EVER. Back where there were home phones and no kid had there own little caller phone. it's ridiculous. Anyway, back to the WANT list.
I am who I am, and he better respect that. Now, I know us girls have the tendency to try and control our guys, thanks to the likes of Eve. But, From women to women, i'm sure she was nice
, but I took the liberty of changing myself so that I'm not like that. Controlling towards other people. I take what the guy gives. As in, however he is, that's how he is. Though I noticed guys like pleasing and be of liking to the girl they like so they "by choice" want to be changed so the girl will like them. But I'm coming back again to know confidently where I stand, and I know that it's right. And if the guy's way is wrong I'm going to break it off with him, unless he joins me on the right path. But if not, then I can't have a relationship with that guy. eg. I'm on the narrow road trying to please and live by God's way, he's on the broad road living for himself trying to please no one but himself. negative + Positive equal.. well, in this case.. nothing.
Anyways, I feel I'm rambling on. So in bullet here what I'm looking for in a guy
*Child of God - Born again.
*Respects me
*Reliable + Faithful
*Honest
That's all I got so far. The rest is self explanatory, and all good nature, and chemistry.
Oh here's a few more.
*Sensitive to my needs and desires.
Or just one more.
Well, that's all folks. Thanks for reading. I hope you have a blessed day
