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maryapplegate

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Im 33 years old and been divorced for a year and I was waundering if theirs a christian man out there for me .I have three kids and two of them live with thier dad.My oldest is 14 yrs old and he lives in South Carolina.I live in Newaygo Michigan with my mom and dad.I dont drive because Im terrified to drive.I have Bi-polar disorder and Scisoaffective disorder.Im afraid no one will like me or date me because of my disorders.I wear dentures and I have been saved for 12yrs. My depression is bothering me right now and am taking meds. to control it.I need help dealing with my depression. I also need prayer.Im just afriad that theres no one for me.
 
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ShelleBelle76

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My son's father has both disorders you mentioned, and he has been enjoying an extremely fullfilling relationship for two years now with the woman he left us for. So don't lose hope! Apparently there is someone out there who will love you despite yourself. And if not, you can be single like me! And I don't have any disorders! :)

Seriously though, you have to learn to completely love yourself before you will attract the person who will completely love you.
 
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glenwood74

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Well said ShelleBelle. Let Christ be your focus and the rest of your life will fall into place.
 
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CatWoman

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I am 44 and have bipolar disorder too. In a lecture by Maryanne Williamson she asked "Do you really want a man who wants a women like you?" I answered no. So I have been working on myself for years now.Like physical appearance, spiritually, getting rid of baggage in my life. I am now ready to date. If you have mental health issues you must be seeing a counseler. That person can help you out set your goals.
Sad to hear you are afraid of driving. It sounds like thats a handicap for you and stopping you from getting out of the house.Do you go to church? Thats the first place I'm looking. I all so have been looking at this wedsite. I did not find a boyfriend but I did find a friend and he prays with me. That is golden to me. Thanks Gary
 
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CatWoman

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I'll pray for you.
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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Everything is possible with God. I have heard the testimony of a woman who had so many reasons why a man would never love her (her age, her handicaps, etc..) but despite this she kept praying for a husband and one day she met a man who not only loved her but told her that he loved all of the things that she hated about herself. They got married and she said their marriage is going great.

Don't give up. God is listening.
 
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sunshine_debbie

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I can not help you with getting a man, and I honestly dont think you need one. However, I will pray for you.

Lord, be with this woman and in her life. Help her to know you and to experience the joy of walking in your word and with you at her side. Please Lord, help her to bear this burden you have given her. Help her to love others and you as much as she is afraid of others. Cover her with your protection, keep her safe, keep her well. Show her your armor that she may put it on and feel safe.(Psalm 91) Love her Lord as you always have, show her that a relationship with you is all she needs and the rest will come in time if it is your will. In Jesus most precious name AMEN

In Love
Debbie
 
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Mustbestrong

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Hi I am 40 something and after coming out of a nasty divorce do you all really want to get back in that same environment? All the pain, hurt, court dates, lawyer fee, judgments rather right or wrong. Really do you want to repeat that?? Now it's just a question.

After my ex stuck it to me in all ways possible she is a Christian lady mind you, marriage is NOT what it used to be, I don't discourage it, however why marry? God create a beautiful thing call Marriage, and it was beautiful, Man was a man, A woman was a woman, who was always by his side, they always defended each other. What happened? Now Christian marriage are all falling apart, why? the trend is bad, the numbers are getting larger.

What is going on within the church, who's watching the sheep?
 
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Mustbestrong

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But anyway, hang around friends positive friends, don't go looking, let it come to you. It will, God has one for everyone. Sometimes we can't see what God has in store for us, we just have to roll with it.

I am always wondering what I did to cause her to do what she did to me, and it was NOT adultery, but slow down, don't force it, let it come. it will I promise you that.

I mean I want to start a thread for newly divorced, or been divorce for a while and get together for some chat, talk about it is the best medicine.
 
loveschild

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I don't know all the names they have for sickness these days. I used to have terrible nerve problems. Was destroying me. I would get terrible panic attacks. Had depression. Would have attacks when I drove and my arms would actually freeze up and I'd have to pull over praying as hard as I could for it to go away.
With the help of God all of it went away. It can for you also.
Don't tell people about your teeth its none of there business. Keep praying and trusting God Tell the spirit of sickness to get out of you in Jesus name. Pray the blood of Jesus from the top of your head to the bottom of your toes. Don' stop until you are healed. Believe with all your heart that God can set you free.
The Lord hold you tight.
 
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Digitallady

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Hi: If I were you, I would not focus on the man right now. Focus on your children, and working to better your life by getting stronger in the Lord. The Lord know our desires, and he will fulfill them in due time. Just go about your life as normal...go to work, if you work, and go to church, and you never know when that special godly man will show up.

I will keep you lifted i prayer..but remember..take care of your children first. They should always be the priority.
 
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Ugly

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Digitallady said:
Hi: If I were you, I would not focus on the man right now. Focus on your children, and working to better your life by getting stronger in the Lord. The Lord know our desires, and he will fulfill them in due time. Just go about your life as normal...go to work, if you work, and go to church, and you never know when that special godly man will show up.

I will keep you lifted i prayer..but remember..take care of your children first. They should always be the priority.
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Also, if a persons name has no flag and no information (join date, posts, rep power, a clickable name, an online/offline dot) then that means they are not on the site any longer. Or, if the name is clickable and it's an old post you can check their profile to see when they were on last. Though if its advice on a topic 1.. 2.. 3 years old its probably not relevant to them anymore.
 
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